I was surfing the web and came across this site. I have had my 2 year old grandson since he was 1 month old my husband did not want me to step in and get him but my daughter is battling drugs. Now my daughter just had another baby not even 2 months yet and CPS states they will take her and put her into the system if she has no where to go. My husband who is only the stepfather of my children said that if I take on this child he dont no if he would stay. He has a grow daughter that I took in my home and help to raise and there is nothing that I would not do for her if she was in need I just dont understand how he said that he is a family man and he wants me to turn my back and let my granddaughter go into the system. This has been so heavy on my heart. Do I choose between my marriage or my grandchild? Which I would like to have both.
Where do I start.. We have been raising our grandson for the past 2.5 yrs (he is 4.5)... his Mommy, our daughter in law died very unexpected 3 days after his 2nd birthday. Our son didnt know how to handle life with a 2 yr old and asked us to take him until he figured things out. The first 2 years that we had him, our son only say his child a handful of times... a few months ago our son moved in...
Hi,I was just wondering.. and thinking.. why do Crack addicts not only blame other family members or their spouse for thier addiction but also why do they leave the people that actually care and love them?? I just don't understand.