So yesterday my stepdaughter came to visit her kids. We've had them all they're lives and almost two years ago we got guardianship. So the visit in the beginning was strained, bio was slightly rude. Wanted Indian food we took her and the kids to Indian, barly talked to us. We ordered fish for the kids, she proceeded to "taste" it makes a Hugh deal about how gross it was and of course the kiddos didn't eat. Then takes the leftovers home "for latter" the nerve.

Anyway the interesting part is when we dropped her off at the train station, I said goodbye and then reminded her that she had been meaning to talk to me. I asked if it was anything important. It's when she told me that she didn't want to say, because she was asked not to say anything. I asked who asked you not say anything? It's when she told me that she recieved an anonymous letter from someone that was trying to help her and bio dad. The letter had details about my sister, me, apparently we my sister and I were talking about her. The letter said I really didn't like her, I was pretending to be her friend, not to trust me, that I wanted to permanently take her kids away. And then the person asked her to ask me specific questions like "ask her if you can visit the kids at school and I bet you she'll say no". Then the person advised her to call them everyday to visit more often and told her I was documenting and recording calls. Which is not true. In any case I don't know if I should believe her? I think maybe she consulted with an attorney who might be telling her that more then likely it's our plan to get permanency and advising her in what to do. She went in to say that under the messed up circumstances she was doing well. I set her straight and said that for the kids the circumstances weren't messed up. She acknowledged that and said that she could make my life difficult if she didnt tealize they were where the should be. She said you have no idea how mean I can be and what I can do. Anyway lots of other interesting things were said like the fact that she and bio dad are talking and she confronted him with him saying that he was diagnosed parinod schizo. Any way the letter didn't have a return address. Very weird. Do you think she was fishing for info? She said all she wants are overnight visits? I don't know what go think.