go back to the bar and find a new one...

Invite a third that's a bottom.

Hey this one sounds like fun!

maybe next time you bring two back to make the odds better...

Personally, I always asked what the other person was into beforehand. You're gonna be that intimate with someone and be afraid to find out what they like first??

And there's always good 'ol experimenting.

i would find out first, but i don't want to talk to them before sex.... i don't want to get to attached... never know who you might have to call the police on... and those conjugal visits are a bitch!

Honestly? I thought those prison scenes were kinda hot. I kinda got the impression you might want to be the center of attention in this kind of thing?? LOL Can't say I haven 't given it a though or two myself.
What dark lies in the heart of men??

ha ha tim,
normally i would, but the drive is just such pain in the ass - and i just don't need any more pain there...

Asking what someone is into doesn't always work. I have asked men if they were a top to which they assured me they were only to find out they were a bottom when we got to the bedroom. Solution, tell him where the door is, grab a dildo and finish yourself off, then, try again tomorrow.

A new twist? What line would you use to seduce the so called Top into turning to be a bottom?

I once said, "hey let's go 50/50!" it payed

The line I use is "I'll pay you" - works every time!

Or you could just not do anal. It's sometimes better when you don't include full penetration.

You know, that's right. The best sex I can remember was without penetration.

Been dealing with that for 20 years as my current lover of 18 years and my ex of 1 year were both tops like me.

So we compromised and took turns even though being a bottom wasn't something any of us got into.

But also in both cases if I would have asked either first before I fell in love with them, I never would have gone on a 2nd date. It wasn't something that I thought could happen the first time, and surely it couldn't possibly ever happen to me two times in a row.

As luck would have it, it did.

That's why I would keep a journal because they know my short term memory isn't that good, and I would get tricked and they would get extra turns. (Not at the same time but back when i was with each of them separately)