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After reading this message that I received, I wanted to post it exactly as it was written.
So often, people judge someone based on issues such as health, physical limitations, looks and even more. Those things do not define a person as to who they are. it is hoever a testiment of the courage, strength and love that they have to face each day. No one can know the actual pain, fear and devistation one feels. We do not live within their bodies, and we do not feel their feelings.
Today, after reading this, I hope that I can help someone remember to look beyond their field of visiion, and see the wonderful aspects that make up each and everyone of us.
I really need some feed back on this. I went to a neurologist and he says I have a tremor that gives me symptoms similiar to Parkisons Diease but it isn't that. My hands shake as well as my arms. I am thinking if my condition worsens I will be like a person I know. He has Cerebral Palsy. He feels nobody wants him because of this ailment, but he deserves love like all of us. I feel like I deserve to be loved too. A person who has a phyical ailment like Aids for example does'nt deserve this sickness. It just happens to us, even if we don't want it.
I just don't know what to say or do to help others to get past the physical ailments, and give love we all want and cherish. All I can say is, try to put yourself in the place of a sick person and try to imagine the wants and needs they would want and need when it comes to others. I think what I am talking about, would make a pretty good topic for discussion
Please share your honest thoughts... feelings and experiences...
Jerry
So often, people judge someone based on issues such as health, physical limitations, looks and even more. Those things do not define a person as to who they are. it is hoever a testiment of the courage, strength and love that they have to face each day. No one can know the actual pain, fear and devistation one feels. We do not live within their bodies, and we do not feel their feelings.
Today, after reading this, I hope that I can help someone remember to look beyond their field of visiion, and see the wonderful aspects that make up each and everyone of us.
I really need some feed back on this. I went to a neurologist and he says I have a tremor that gives me symptoms similiar to Parkisons Diease but it isn't that. My hands shake as well as my arms. I am thinking if my condition worsens I will be like a person I know. He has Cerebral Palsy. He feels nobody wants him because of this ailment, but he deserves love like all of us. I feel like I deserve to be loved too. A person who has a phyical ailment like Aids for example does'nt deserve this sickness. It just happens to us, even if we don't want it.
I just don't know what to say or do to help others to get past the physical ailments, and give love we all want and cherish. All I can say is, try to put yourself in the place of a sick person and try to imagine the wants and needs they would want and need when it comes to others. I think what I am talking about, would make a pretty good topic for discussion
Please share your honest thoughts... feelings and experiences...
Jerry
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The only thing I can thank of is telling a person that an ailment doesn't change who they are, just adds to the experience of being who he/she is. We go though what we do in life because it helps us understand what being human is. Through these experiences we can grow and gain new outlooks on life. Possibly even help or inspire another person having the same or similar problems in life.
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