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derofeba 08/20/2011

I'm in love with my best friend for a big while now and she just sended my this message:

"Do you like me?" And I said: What kind of question is that! I love you!
SHE: I'm not talking about friendship..."
ME: Dear, I love you, that is a fact, you are my best friend. I'm sorry but where did that came from?
SHE: I don't have nothing to do I was messing with you."

What the hell?! What does this means? Is my imagination or...? What does this means?

deleted_user 08/20/2011

Maybe because you said "I love you that is a fact, you are my best friend" made her change her mind. You said she was your best friend; nobody who is confessing their feelings wants to hear that.

Then again from all the other posts sounds like she really just could be messing with your head, but who knows really. Girls are confusing creatures.

derofeba 08/20/2011

Do you think I shouldn' have said: "I love you that is a fact, you are my best friend" ?

deleted_user 08/20/2011

you should have just said you loved her, now youll never get with her.

deleted_user 08/20/2011

You just shouldn't have brought up she's your best friend. It's something she already knows and if you're confessing to your best friend that you love them and they say "I love you too, you're my best friend" then they're just like 'oh crap is that all I am to them?'

deleted_user 08/21/2011

"Girls are confusing creatures."
-and they smell bad.

You should just go up to her and just tell her straight up. no frilly billy tilly roundabout words. "Hey. I like you. I LOVE YOUUU I"M IN LOVE WITH YOU!" like that. Just go for it. Seriously.

derofeba 08/21/2011

Oh gosh...! O messed it all up, right? Now I'll never going to get her... I so stupid! But I was so nervous and this is not a topic to talk texting. And I couldn't think straigth, my hands were shaking. Gosh! I'm SO stupied! What do I do now?

deleted_user 08/21/2011

don't straight tell her "oh i'm in love with you". unless she is definitely gay, lest you end up pushing her away completely.

just wait till it comes up again. if she thinks you like her. she'll bring it up again. (my best friend is straight and its not a secret that we both kind of dig each other and she asks me at least once a week if i like her). just have patience and tell the truth.

you can always use the "best friend" cover for how you feel about her until you're confident enough to throw it out there 100%,

good luck! xoxo

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