Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group
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Hi,
I'm a fourteen year old girl and I am questioning my sexuality. I'm definately not straight and that is something i have started to come to terms with; however, I don't know whether i am Lesbian, Bi, Pansexual Etc.
I have been attracted to girls but only girls that I am already close to. Other wise I am not attracted to girls in any way. The thing is I'm have the same thing with boys.
I have been attracted to more girls than i have boys but I go to an all girls school so I don't know many boys....
I know I am young and you may think I just don't understand my hormones or something but I'm not naive. I know what I feel and I want to understand what this means so I can come to terms with it.
I am not 'out' to any friends or family because i don't feel ready to talk to anyone about it in person. Not only that but I don't know what i would tell tham even if i was.
I hope anyone here can help me figure this out and i am always happy to give anyone else advice if you want it xx
I'm a fourteen year old girl and I am questioning my sexuality. I'm definately not straight and that is something i have started to come to terms with; however, I don't know whether i am Lesbian, Bi, Pansexual Etc.
I have been attracted to girls but only girls that I am already close to. Other wise I am not attracted to girls in any way. The thing is I'm have the same thing with boys.
I have been attracted to more girls than i have boys but I go to an all girls school so I don't know many boys....
I know I am young and you may think I just don't understand my hormones or something but I'm not naive. I know what I feel and I want to understand what this means so I can come to terms with it.
I am not 'out' to any friends or family because i don't feel ready to talk to anyone about it in person. Not only that but I don't know what i would tell tham even if i was.
I hope anyone here can help me figure this out and i am always happy to give anyone else advice if you want it xx
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So I understand your confusion. I would say right now, don't worry so much about defining it. Not because you're "too young," i don't think that. I just think if you're not so worried about defining your sexuality, the answer will come to you because that's what happened to me. I stopped worrying about it and then realized i am bisexual. So I think the same will work for you.