Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group
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That I really like....We are pretty good friends and yes he is gay. But he is 23 and Im 16...I sometimes feel like I love him because I cant stop thinking about him and when I see him I get lets say butterflies in my stomach lol. But okay we are just so close to eachother and he broke up with his boyfriend recently and I was there for him not because oh yay this might be an opening for me..no I was there because I care for him alot. But since his breakup he has shut me and another one of our friends out. Wont speak to us but maybe one day out of the week and it hurts so much. Why cant I get over him? Why when I see him all my problems go away and when I see him smile it just takes away all of my sadness? I just don't know what to do...Should I tell him? I know the age difference is a big part of it and that sucks because I am mature for my age but that really doesn't matter. Please help me on this you guys...thanks in advance *hugs*
Cody
Cody
normally when people are hurt, its an instinct to shut everybody else out till they heal, its because they feel vurnerable and are ashamed to be seen like that. but that also means that thats the moment in which they truly need of someone, its hard to get pass that barrier, ull probably feel afraid to even go in, afraid to be directly shut out, but if u have him in truly in ur heart as u say, whatever he does to keep you aways will only wanna make u get closer
and it doesnt nescesaraly needs to end in a relationship, u dont have to have that in your head all the time, that only gets in your way of helping him, it makes you kinda selfish cause u end up wanting things to go ur way
(whoa, psych classes really paid off lol)
anyways thats about all i can do for u from here, rest its up to u mate, godspeed (i always wanted to say that lol)