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Telling her...

derofeba
derofeba
Two year before this, I was a basketball player, I had already wan a national title with my time and I had and one day, I was playing and I remember falling down and couldn't get up again. Thank God wasn't that serius, but I couln't play ever again. Something that I don't know how to say in English in both knes. So I joined Musical Theatre. It has been awesome. And one day I was invited to a birthday party and I needed a place to take a shower before it and a girl that I didn't even knew her name offerd her house. Since then we have been going everywhere togheter. We are best friends, but I love her, I trully lover... I know everything about her! Her favourite singer, second favourite, third even. Songs, wishes, dreams. Eveything! I like our relationship, but I can't stand being near her and not telling her how I feel, beeing to close and not kiss her, not hold her do way I want to. But I'm afraid that if I tell her anything at all, she might want distant. And I can't leave with that ideia, imagine actually live away from her!
I am SO lost! I don't know what do to...
deleted_user
deleted_user
well you're already living without her, in a sense. she doesnt know that you love her, and you dont know if she feels the same way in return. so in a way, dont you already live without her? If you truly do love her, i think that you would tell her about your love, and if she doesnt share the same love with you, then you really need to have some distance to regroup your thoughts and emotions. i just posted on a topic very similar if you want to read more, its in the same support group titled "dating"
derofeba
derofeba
The only thing that's keeping me for telling her, is that I know maybe even better then my own hands. If I teel her, she going to push me away, even if not intentional, she will. And we have a wonderful relatioship. I guess one of the reasons I fell for her was that she was there, she saw the worst of me and denied to leave me. No one ever did that for me. And the hugging, sleeping in the same bed and all that kind of stuff goes away, because she won't feel comfortable around me. I want to tell her, but I am going to lose her. And that is my funeral... I love her to much, you know...
pOpZiNlOvE
pOpZiNlOvE
When I told my best friend how i feel about her, i thought she would push me away and never feel comfortable around me again.
i thought the holding hands while watching scary movies would go away.
the sleep overs,the closeness.. everything.
but it didnt. she is straight but she did admit to liking me. And even had conversations with my other best friend about it. And none of that stuff stopped. Well it has now, only because we have decided to do seperate things. She has a boyfriend and im seeing someone too.
Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. She deserves to know as much as you deserve to be able to say it to her. You're going to have to take a chance. She's going to find out eventually.
derofeba
derofeba
Thank you so much :) Really !!