Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group

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ComingOut33 02/18/2008

Ok.. My mom found out i have a girlfriend and she's not happy about it. She knows i'm a lesbian, but doesn't accept it and is pretty much in denial about it. She wants me to break up with her, but i'm not doing that because i love my girlfriend so much. I don't have the courage to tell my mom how happy she makes me. I just need some advice on what to say to my mom. I've talked to my girlfriend about it and she can't think of anything either. I just want to be able to date without my mom absolutely flipping out about everything.

deleted_user 02/18/2008

Ok, so this is my idea of what u should tell her. "Mom, i need to talk to you. Ok, so, i need to tell you that i like being the way I am. And my girlfriend, i love her very much and she makes me extremely happy. Shes the most important thing to me. And i dont want to be torn away from her. Wether u like it or u dont, i am what i am and nothing can change that."

deleted_user 02/20/2008

explain its not something you can change. i belive its something you are born with...just like your mom cant "go lesbian". explain how she makes you feel. tell her your happy and that your still the same girl you were before. i hope i help --taylor--

ComingOut33 02/27/2008

thanks guys..

deleted_user 02/27/2008

Ok im not gonna sa just flat out tell her because the truth is sometimes it isnt that easy..
Maybe invite her over or something to show your mom that shes a nice person and just because you guys are to girls inlove doesnt make you diffrent than any other couple

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