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Two years ago or so I fell madly in love with a girl, my best friend (my coming out story x) but she was totally straight and when I told her, our friendship started to fall apart. That's when I met another girl who helped me through it and was very understandable. However she was straight as well, at least untill we kissed. We started dating and I thought I was over the moon for her, we've been together for almost a year now. She younger than me for one year, and I'm going to college to another country, something she's been terrified of !! She even asked me not to go, but it's my future, I can't forgo the opportunity, right? Also, lately, I've been feeli weird about her, I feel like we're not right, and she's very jealous of EVERYTHING and we text every minute !! If I don't answ within 10 to 20 minutes, she texts again and we have to fall asleep "together" in a phonecall. I feel smothered sometimes and I told her but she doesn't change. I don't know what to do, she's SOOOO sweet and caring, GORGEOUS !! I'm afraid of leaving this secure relationship, I think I may regret it latter if I end it. However, she was my first girlfriend !! I've never dated before .. What if I don't love her? I'd be lying to her and myself, right? I really don't know what to do !! Please help me !!
Well, it looks like there are a lot of communication issues with you guys... I would definitely try to do more talking with her, and if she doesn't listen, you might want to consider some sort of couples counseling... If she is really important to you, and you to her, you will be able to talk about your problems, but it might be easier with a third party present... Talking will solve most of the issues, but you have to make her listen. Its obvious you two care about each other :) but she also has to respect your personal space bubble, and we all need breaks sometimes.
Best of luck! :3