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hell17691
hell17691
so am 19 Bi i have had intercourse with both females/males and im not confused i just like girls more then guys i just get a feeling that its scary to have a relationship with a guy plus its hard to find gay people where i live i want a relationship with a guy bbut am scared to go fully out and get one does anybody else have this feeling?
ZPsunshine
ZPsunshine
Yea man, it's not easy where I live
deleted_user
deleted_user
i'm in the same boat, hun! i've dated guys but had physical relationships with girls. now i'm at the point where i'd like to actually date another girl...and i'm not really sure where to go from there.
deleted_user
deleted_user
getting in to a relationship with anyone is scary im not bi but if i was i wouldnt focus so much on trying to find a boy or a girl as much as i would focus on looking for the person i click with best
deleted_user
deleted_user
PRAY. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've always been with guys... I can't figure out if it's just that I've had so many horrible relationships with men, that I'm leaning towards women hoping it'll be diff... but I don't want to mess with anyones mind... trying to figure out who I am... so how do I handle that?
My kids are young... it's not like I have free time to do much....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've never had this problem, but I totally agree with missblueeyes. Worry less about the gender and more about the person; that's what bisexuality is all about to be attracted to both genders emotionally and physically and plus you MUST be emotionally attracted to someone in order to get to the physical if you're in a relationship, otherwise your relationship is doomed to fail.

@JaneEdwards, My advice is, if you can physically and emotionally see yourself attracted or with a woman, then you know where you stand with your attraction towards females. As for actually dating one, you'll need to find a way to have either a babysitter or your parents watch your children if you decide you need to go out with friends and explore the "LGBT nightlife"; see if you perhaps click with anybody.

Otherwise there's always just waiting for the unexpected and Match (dot) com (I don't know the beginning part of my advice is good; the rest of it is blah because I can't even find myself a girl near me. I go online and they find me with my "amazing" personality)
deleted_user
deleted_user
You should follow where your heart leads you the most. That's what I've done. I've had relationships with men, but in my heart I knew I was attracted to women more. I just relate and click better with the same sex. Coming out at 17 wasnt easy, I'm 29 years old now. and believe me, it's still difficult at times, but you have to stay strong and have courage. Do what makes you happy, not what other people want for you.