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Um well Hannah and I have been good friends for maybe a few weeks..how we met was we were both invited to the sameparty and both drove cars and neither knew how to get to the location so we paired up and she followed me in her car..after that we have become 'party buddies' kinda thing..if she's invited to one she brings me and vise versa..people know us as being like that so they always invite us both. Um like every day after school (when I dont have work) she goes "so what you wana do up town?" already assuming that we are going :) and she was planning her holidays and study timetables and says "I plan my time around you Mahala" and well I am just really confused from her signals. She has been really interested in asking me about my past relationships with girls and even comes to the school's GLTB group..mkaybe she was just embarrased but said "Im only here as support.." and today when we met up in our lunch breaks she says to me "last night there was this really hot guy.." She has held my hand..and always offeres to buy me fanta..we are together always at school, we're in half the same classes..I really do liek her. Hannah isn't like the other girls at my school who tan themselves orange..thats what I like about Hannah..she's definatley not fake and she has kinda hinted to me that she's 'curious'. I asked her if she checks out guys or girls and she says well both and laughs it off. Argh I am so unsure it is driving me mad. What does everyone think?
Um well Hannah and I have been good friends for maybe a few weeks..how we met was we were both invited to the sameparty and both drove cars and neither knew how to get to the location so we paired up and she followed me in her car..after that we have become 'party buddies' kinda thing..if she's invited to one she brings me and vise versa..people know us as being like that so they always invite us both. Um like every day after school (when I dont have work) she goes "so what you wana do up town?" already assuming that we are going :) and she was planning her holidays and study timetables and says "I plan my time around you Mahala" and well I am just really confused from her signals. She has been really interested in asking me about my past relationships with girls and even comes to the school's GLTB group..mkaybe she was just embarrased but said "Im only here as support.." and today when we met up in our lunch breaks she says to me "last night there was this really hot guy.." She has held my hand..and always offeres to buy me fanta..we are together always at school, we're in half the same classes..I really do liek her. Hannah isn't like the other girls at my school who tan themselves orange..thats what I like about Hannah..she's definatley not fake and she has kinda hinted to me that she's 'curious'. I asked her if she checks out guys or girls and she says well both and laughs it off. Argh I am so unsure it is driving me mad. What does everyone think?
I know its hard but what I suggest is take a step back be friends with her and when she feels ready im sure she might come to you for support. All you can do at the min is be a good friend and you will know when the time is right
I never heard some1 speak so highly of some1 else like that you have really fallen for her! As said just take it easy and wait for her to feel confortable herself. Take Care and please let me know how things go x
i agree with djdave take a step back i know this hard and just be friends and then all you can do is take it day by day and see what happens. you never know.
take it easy sweetheart...i know youve fallen but just be friends...good luck...let me know how things go...*hugs* x
Just have a chat to her about it one on one and do all you can to keep the wonderful friendship you've built.
Tell us how it goes!
lol.
and it sucks because you pick up mixed signals. it drives your radar crazy :)
so i say you just wait it out until she's ready to confide in you. don't push the subject on her too strongly otherwise or ask too eagerly, she might just freak out. but maybe like ask her like you don't really care. kinda like you don't expect an answer.
hmm.
lol.