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So... I've decided that I am telling my bestfriend that I love her, but I not prepared to take an huge no. Well... No one is right? I need your help because I don't know what expect from her. I can't read the signs, I'm simply not able to do it. Can you give a hand? :)
So... We are bestfriends turns a year next month. There was this one time that I couldn't touch people. I had an huge crisis at home and since then I was unable to touch people, because if I did I would start shaking and probably screaming. And I didn't want anyone to know, so... She was always with me preventing any kind of situation. Then, she toke me to this roof and said that was time to finish that crap. And hugged me... Of course I started screaming in the same instance but she didin't let me go. She hold me for five minutes while I was screaming and shaking like a maniac. And somehow I stoped screaming and she let me seat, she put one music from Alexrande Dexplat (my favourite) and hold me again while I was crying, whispering: "Everything is going to be ok, I'm here and I'm not going anywhere, ok? I'm here... Everything is going to be fine." That was something that meke me love her more than I already did. She literally saw the worst of me and staid. Anyway... This is the first, then the rest:
When I sleep over her house we fall asleep like this: with her legs between mine, her arm around my belly, holding hands and I could feel her breaht on my neck. When we wake up, she always smiles at me and hugs me and then she falls asleep again and I just stay watching her spleed :) (little creepy right :s )
Anyway, more: Sometimes she lies in my lap, other times I do and she starts messing with my hair.
She is a really sweet girls, you know.. Couldn't harm a fly, but sometimes she gets really mean and cold, out of nowhere you know? It's like someone toke her and replace her with someone I don't know. And she talks about boys, a lot! I talk to... You know? Get in the conversation... But then, she has this mmoments...
There is this one time: we had woken up and she started arranging the blankets and I was laid down, next thing I know she is lying on me. I just start laughing and asked what the hell she was doing and she said this: "I had this sudden will of laying over you" (ok, this in Portuguese sounds way better XD ) Ok... And sometimes we are talking and out of nowhere we are holding hands.
What do you think? Help me out here would you? What do you think?
So... We are bestfriends turns a year next month. There was this one time that I couldn't touch people. I had an huge crisis at home and since then I was unable to touch people, because if I did I would start shaking and probably screaming. And I didn't want anyone to know, so... She was always with me preventing any kind of situation. Then, she toke me to this roof and said that was time to finish that crap. And hugged me... Of course I started screaming in the same instance but she didin't let me go. She hold me for five minutes while I was screaming and shaking like a maniac. And somehow I stoped screaming and she let me seat, she put one music from Alexrande Dexplat (my favourite) and hold me again while I was crying, whispering: "Everything is going to be ok, I'm here and I'm not going anywhere, ok? I'm here... Everything is going to be fine." That was something that meke me love her more than I already did. She literally saw the worst of me and staid. Anyway... This is the first, then the rest:
When I sleep over her house we fall asleep like this: with her legs between mine, her arm around my belly, holding hands and I could feel her breaht on my neck. When we wake up, she always smiles at me and hugs me and then she falls asleep again and I just stay watching her spleed :) (little creepy right :s )
Anyway, more: Sometimes she lies in my lap, other times I do and she starts messing with my hair.
She is a really sweet girls, you know.. Couldn't harm a fly, but sometimes she gets really mean and cold, out of nowhere you know? It's like someone toke her and replace her with someone I don't know. And she talks about boys, a lot! I talk to... You know? Get in the conversation... But then, she has this mmoments...
There is this one time: we had woken up and she started arranging the blankets and I was laid down, next thing I know she is lying on me. I just start laughing and asked what the hell she was doing and she said this: "I had this sudden will of laying over you" (ok, this in Portuguese sounds way better XD ) Ok... And sometimes we are talking and out of nowhere we are holding hands.
What do you think? Help me out here would you? What do you think?
I agree with Mauvelous if she's in denial sooner or later she'll thank you and like she said " I'm no expert " either lol BEST OF LUCK!:)