It's difficult to think that others might hate you for eing a lesbian, and sadly some people in the world might, but are they really worth knowing?I'm assuming that because you've identified as bi, maybe ]people knew and maybe they din't, but you are the same eperson you were before you knew you wer possibly a lesbian, and eople who are accepting of bis are usually accepting of les an gay too. it's normal to be afraid, it's part of the process. there is nothing you can do right nw bt to get lots of support wherever you can find i and don't rush yourself, because you have to take as long asyou need to discover your identity andcome out to yourself before you come out to anyone else. it's good that you've sarted that journey by telling yourslef it's okay not to like boys. there will always behaters in the owrld and unfortunately that is a common issue for LGBTQ people, but wherever you go there will be people to love you for who you are, and some people may acually become your friend if they find out you're gay! There is n set in stone way to know, there are many ists online that could be helpful to spark your thought process, but the only way you'll ever truly know is whenyou're ready to deide and you can't force that. Just get as much help and support as you can, talking to other LGBTQ people really helps! I found watching lesbian movies and reading books and things like that intoduced me to the life of the gay community when i was coming out where i wouldn't have been expoed tothat otherwise. Now that I've learned about that stuff, I feel that i belong there, and it really helped. surround yourself with people who make you feel happy and confident, try to stay happy and patient at you soul search and dose up on the gay pride. if you do turn out to be a lesbian, that it the best way to stay around people who will protect and love you. Above all, you yourself must face the challenges ahead such as self-acceptance and confidence with being openly gay, and try to build your life to support that so you will have a happy journey.
Discovering you're gay and coming out should be a fun, exciting ourney and the end of the road should leave you self-forfilled, joyous, and happy. unfortunately it's not like that for all, and that is beuae they do not have access to support, face people who will torment them, or have too much pain inside themself for mabny reasons. Try to make tyourself one of the frmer not tha latter. Good luc for your journey, and we are with you every step of e way. I hope you can find yourself in a accepting world where you are treated well.
one last thing. while you can't force others to be okay with it, you can help them to become more comfortable with the idea of you being a lesbin or get them out of your life if they do not respect you and replace them with peope who do. Hope i helped a little