I've been in he same situation. I used to have boyfriends because i didnt want to accept who i am but it got to the point that i felt physicly ill when they kissed me. My advice, if you dont want to be with a boy, dont. But keep your options open as if you havent kissed a girl, yo may find that you dont like girls ether. Try not to burn any bridges untill your compleatly sure :) x

You're still gay. My gf isn't exactly in this position, but I was talking to her and she always tells guys that she's a lesbian now because she's had boyfriends and she's with me and has no desire to be with another guy. However, she is still conflicted because she finds guys attractive, but doesn't ever wanna be with them again.

Here's the thing, lesbians find guys attractive, we just don't sexually or emotionally want them. So now she's pretty convinced she's gay, even though she has a daughter. She's always been drunk when she slept with her last bf anyway; it's how she got her daughter to begin with.

But off topic, people like attention for different reasons. Your sexuality is based on attraction emotionally and physically, but if you're obviously neither attracted emotionally and/or physically to a man then you're gay. But still you don't need labels, if you ever found a guy that you were attracted to in both of those ways, then it doesn't mean you're not gay; sexuality is fluid. So just try not thinking about it.

Thank you both so much! I was so confused. You've really helped a lot!

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a lesbian and liking attention from boys, nor does it mean you're not a lesbian. I have plenty of straight friends who love attention from the same sex because, well, let's face it - attention makes you feel good! Knowing others find you sexy and attractive is bound to make you feel awesome and cause you to therefore want more attention. It's just a pride thing. :)