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I am 13 and i am bi or les, my mom doesn't know but i need to spill! she is totallly against it! how can i do this alone?
-totally hopeless
-totally hopeless
Thelonewolf
figure out what you are first, once you are secure with your sexuality, you can handle any criticism people with throw at you.... for the past year, i suppose i have been one of the lucky few who have not been subject to hate in my town. i say the past year cause i have been dating in real life for the past year. before it was all on the net, but the net to me just doesnt work. as for your mother, as i said, figure out what you actually are. hell, at your age i still considered myself straight. then i went to bi, and now im a les... it takes time. im 20 now (hanging out here cause im just use to it... i started here many years ago.) i suggest you come out to your friends, at least those who are supportive of you. those who arent are not your real friends.
hiddeninthecloset
thanks!!!! i am a lesbian, but i said bi, cuz i didnt wanna seem stupid. but i am positive! my momhates obama cuz he for gay rights, like me, i went to gay pride last fall and she thought i was at church! and thelonewolf! i have came out to my friends, how did you tell you mom??
deleted_user
You are never alone! especially with this site. You have so many people who will accept you and support you. There will be people hear to help you out everyday if you need it. But you need to be comfertable with yourself before others can be comfertable with you. It wont be easy. Nothing in life that goes against societys "normal" would be easy. But always remember. Love who you are, lean on us when you need us
Thelonewolf
Yes this site helps a lot. and unlike many, my mom was... well... accepting to a point. she wants me to have a child... she was a bitch to the first girl i introduced her too, but with my current one (even though she doesnt know we are together yet,) shes nice too. and honestly i told her i was never going to fuck a guy... ever... then she asked if i was only going to be with girls. and i said yes. even though i kept claiming i was straight to her XD but yeah.... it was more of a tell and run tactic then a sit down and talk... XD.... though... how do YOU tell YOUR mom? i cant answer that one for you hon, all i can say is, if your loved ones truly loved YOU, they wouldnt hate you, i know that they may feel hurt by you for some reason, but i dont know. :/
hiddeninthecloset
thelonewolf. thanks youve helped alot, but i just dont know, what to do!!
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