Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group
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ive started coming out of the closet and i feel like im in a place where i would be comfortable in relationship the good news is theres quite a few gay/bi good looking girls in my school but the bad news is that they dont know im gay and i dont really know how to 'talk' to them:/ the only relationships ive been in are relationships ive had with boys to cover up my sexuality... so does anyone have any advice to help me with the ladies?:L im kinda new to all this... ive never even kissed a girl:/
Though I'm a guy, I have some advice that I think will be useful. Approach girls you're interested in with confidence. Don't hesitate to go over to them and begin a conversation. Another important thing to remember is to ask prospective same sex lovers is to ask what they are looking for. For example, I've met some attractive guys, but many aren't looking for a relationship. So be sure to ask the girl you're interested in if what they're looking for.
Above all, be yourself. Don't feel you have to conform to any stereotype or act a certain way. I'll let you know if I think of anything else. Congrats on taking the first steps toward an open life.
Enrique
because apparently we've ruled out the use of rainbow bracelets and ellen degeneres bags for attracting the ladies. .....unless you're socially talented, then you may actually find it beneficial to talk to your potential ladies, assuming that you can talk to hot girls and not sound like a blubbering whale. (which is probably what I sound like)
Sooo I'm going to say the most successful relationships i've seen start when the people meet through a common interest. Sports, band, drama, some kind of youth group thing. Just do things you really like to do, and be the best self you can be if one of those good looking girls happens to also be a part of those activities.
I've been with my girl friend for about 2 years, we met when she became active in our schools drama club, which i am the stage manager of. it was like an eyes met across a room thing. there was just this connection pulling us together. we began talking, sooo much talking, we found all these things in common. we were friends for a while, quickly realized there was more than that going on. its a bit of a long story from there, but i can tell you i'm very happy. if you want to talk more about it you can message me. also fyi girls kisses are wayyyyy better, but you'll discover that in time ;) haha good luck
SBB
you could ask them how theyve coped and if theyre single?
just be you (:
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