Gastric Bypass Surgery Support Group

Gastric bypass (GBP) is any of a group of similar operative procedures used to treat morbid obesity, a condition which arises from severe accumulation of excess weight in the form of fatty tissue, and the health problems ("co-morbidities") which result. If you are considering gastric bypass or have had it, join the community where we share our experiences and find support.

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Picklelilly 08/27/2012

Hi everyone- I see the surgeon on Friday and I am full of butterflies. I am having second thoughts that I want surgery for the wrong reasons--like if I had more strength of character and will power I could do this on my own. I have "dieted" my way to obesity but still am nervous --- is this too drastic? Did you all feel that way? I want to be healthy, feel good, live long but a little voice inside is saying that if I really wanted all that, I would be able to do it on my own. I am having a hard time expressing myself. Any thoughts? Thanks.

deleted_user 08/27/2012

Feeling this is all part of the process

deleted_user 08/27/2012

this is all normal feelings. The question you have to ask yourself is how many times have you tried on your own and been unsuccessful in the long run.

What about health issues is it worth not getting those fixed. We all have been through what you are going through and YES it is well worth it in the long run.

Go for it we are all here to support you and help you along the journey.

YOU WILL BE JUST FINE!!!!!!!!

debsue123 08/27/2012

Everyone goes through that. If we could do it on our own we wouldn't be where we are now. If you don't have the surgery you will not have the life that you are worth having. no amout of will power will get us to lose what we need to lose and on our own we will usually gain it back plus more.
you can do this! I truly believe that. It is you decision but don't let fear stop you. Do the research and and talk to others here who have had it. I have my surgery on Sept 17th and had second guessed myself about 4 times but I can't continue living in pain everyday in my feet, legs (knees) and back. Plus I want to get rid of my diabetes and high blood pressure and more.
Like I said do the research and talk to people who have had it and then decide and talk to the doc about it.
We are here for you.debby

Picklelilly 08/27/2012

Thank you for your responses. That's why I am so glad I found this group. I need to hear what I know in my heart is true!!! I've tried too many times to do this by myself. I am doing my research, talking with my husband and reading and learning from you wonderful, wonderful friends. Onward...... :)

Pam2011 08/27/2012

Only you can make the decision about having WLS. I have always been good at loosing weight. I lost 70 pounds a couple years ago but almost 40 of it was gained back last year..... I have dieted all my life with no success of keeping it off or hitting my goal weight. At 48 I decided I had to do something different and have the sleeve surgery was it. It isn't a magic wand. There will be days that are tough, not being able to drink much at a time or eat a food you used to like cause it doesn't taste good... things like that. The WLS is a tool in your toolbox is how I look at it. It won't magically fix everything in your life so take the time to work on issues like head hunger and possibly other reasons for overeating.
I think most people 2nd quess themselves the sooner the surgery date comes around. It is a serious surgery so it's not something to just jump into. Like others said, do lots of research, write down a list of questions for your surgeon, your nut and others at your program. Go to the support groups and talk to people who have had the same procedure. That will help you, it did me.
Good luck!

Picklelilly 08/27/2012

Thanks you Pam!!!!

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