Gastric Bypass Surgery Support Group
Gastric bypass (GBP) is any of a group of similar operative procedures used to treat morbid obesity, a condition which arises from severe accumulation of excess weight in the form of fatty tissue, and the health problems ("co-morbidities") which result. If you are considering gastric bypass or have had it, join the community where we share our experiences and find support.
I just started the program and am overwhelemed. Seems like the surgery will be so far away. I am not sure if I can do the level of exercise needed and am worried about the diet. I also have gastroparesis, so they are telling me that the surgery will take care of that. I am not sure exactly what my husband thinks yet about the whole thing, but I know for certian he wants a skinner wife.
Read all you can and research to make an educated decision about surgery.
For me it was a no brainer. My diabetic doctor told me if I didn't do something I didn't have much time left. He recommended an RNY. And sent me to see the surgeon who did it.
Very happy with the results. Lost 120 pounds in a year and am NO LONGER a diabetic!
It is overwhelming. It isn't the easy way out but it does work! It's a lifesaving tool.
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Gastric_Bypass_Surgery/forum/13157871-newbies-need-know
Exercise and diet are part of the program but you will be doing a whole lot more head stuff then you've ever imagined. Here are some great books to get you started.
The Tapping Solution for Weight Loss & Body Confidence: A Woman's Guide to Stressing Less, Weighing Less, and Loving More by Jessica Ortner
Women, Food and God by Geneen Roth
When Food is Food and Love is Love
Geneen Roth
Excuse be Gone how to change lifelong self defeating thinking habits by Wayne Dyer
You can heal your life by Louise Hay
Losing your pounds of pain, breaking the link between abuse, stress, and overeating by Doreen Virtue
And
Constant Craving - What Your Food Cravings Mean and How to Overcome Them
The emotional first aid kit by Cynthia Alexander
Course in Weight Loss 22 Spiritual Lessons
By Marianne Williamson
I know in the beginning all this is overwhelming and gets frustrating with all the hoops to jump, but can a sure you it's all well worth it!
After surgery, you will realize and appreciate all the months you had to wait for preparation and knowledge!
I just read a little about gastroparesis...since the RNY removes the pyloric valve, it sounds like it would solve that issue for you.
Only you can decide if living life at a normal weight is worth the permanent changes you will have to make. It took me 5 years to decide I could live without Diet Coke and pizza. You know what? My only regret is that I wish I hadn't waited those 5 years. I've gone from 300+ lbs to 125 lbs. Not having to carry around those extra 175 lbs is liberating, physically and emotionally.
I'm glad you found us. Hang around, read lots, and ask questions. Here's to a healthier you!
JJ
I would also recommend this book which I personally found very helpful http://www.amazon.com/The-Weight-Loss-Surgery-Workbook/dp/1572248998
It is a workbook that will help you sort out answers to alot of questions that will help you to validate your decision to proceed. I believe it also talked about having a supportive environment .
Best of luck through the process, and welcome !