Gambling Addiction & Recovery Support Group
Compulsive gambling is an urge or addiction to gamble despite harmful negative consequences or a desire to stop. A preferred term among many professionals is problem gambling, as few people described by the term experience true compulsions in the clinical sense of the word. Problem gambling often is defined by whether harm is experienced by the gambler or others rather...
Hoever I have a cousin who was a major lottery winner over 20 years ago and I have never stopped thinking, how could that jerk do it and not me?
Besides I do not treat my "former" casino visits the same way as lottery tickets. The casinos provided me with that "instant rush" whereas the lottery tickets take time.
In any addicts world be it gambling drugs, alcohol, sex, food...thats called 'stinkin thinking' and will invariably lead the addict back to his habit.
I would be blessing your family member and forgiveing myself for those thoughts.
They tend to hamper recovery big time, not to mention awakening dormant demons. ( As I like to call em)
I wont even buy raffle tickets!
A word: Daniel didn't go back into the lions den for his hat!
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I Googled Gambling and I came across this site.
I am at a very low point right now. I have not gambled since the end of April but, right now, I am still reeling from the affects of my actions.
Reading your responses has sure given me a boost of confidence.
I wagered on every 'thing I could.. I changed my 'types of gambling 'for a bet because the last 'type of 'betting I was losing ,, So I started a new one.. then it lots it's glow .. I repeated to find .. Every darn''gambling 'venture 'of any kind led me to ''compulsion'/obsession/and debt..
"Heck 'why ?. trying to gamble normally or like Moyer said 'norami.. lol.....
To buy a 'bet' is a 'gamble on a Win.. right.?.so why bother. iffen it's not about the win.. lol.. Put that '$1.00 to old age.. or food bank or some worthy cause..
Or take to toilet and flush. double flush for the rush.. lol.sorry am 'twisted 'it's late.
''I tried. everything 'and found out 'I am a compulsive gambler, always looked before to find a place I could be safe without spending 'monies ."I" wanted to be a normal 'gambler but won an obession to all .
Be well '. gams5.. All bets are off for me..
Definitions of Gambling:
1. the act of playing for stakes in the hope of winning.
2. wagering money or something of material value on an event with an uncertain outcome.
3. take a risk in the hope of a favorable outcome.
4. money that is risked for possible monetary gain.
5. risks, loss, or injury [to the wallet] in the hope of gain or excitement.
Given the defintion, buying an occasional lotto ticket qualifies as gambling.
I know from painful experience... gambling will take you farther than you want to go, and will keep you longer than you intended to stay.
Wanna be free, have fun, have money to pay bills, go places, enjoy life... put the money in the bank and don't take changes with something that 'appears' to be innocent. Lotto is not innocent. It is a a huge ploy. History goes way back. For government now, it is all and only about the billions it bilks from those who play.
Today I have a choice and I am learning to live one day at a time. debs