Gambling Addiction & Recovery Support Group
Compulsive gambling is an urge or addiction to gamble despite harmful negative consequences or a desire to stop. A preferred term among many professionals is problem gambling, as few people described by the term experience true compulsions in the clinical sense of the word. Problem gambling often is defined by whether harm is experienced by the gambler or others rather...
keep busy, find yourself again
Maybe you could go on a vacation... ?
Some people might save it for a rainy day, aka nest egg,
or use it to buy something that you’ve always wanted?
You could throw it away or give it back to the casino.
I’m not trying to sound sarcastic, not even. It’s just that I remember a time where I thought I would rather toss the money in the trash than to go back out there knowing I wouldn’t stop until I felt empty inside. Panicked and empty.
Extra money takes on a different meaning when we win it by chance. It can almost feel like it’s the casinos money, earmarked to be used to gamble with again. Have you ever heard someone say they were “playing with the casinos money”? I’ve said it and I’ve thought it so many, many times.
Extra money. What to do? STOP You don’t have to give in to the temptation you are feeling, give those thoughts time to pass, because they will. Please, don’t get back on that crazy train, it leads to all places dark and insane, it’s the nature of our addiction.
If you have not already stolen that much from your retirement, or children's college fund and raided all your savings, then maybe you have not hit rock bottom yet.
If your bills are paid, and feel like you can not stop on your own, a private counselor would be a good investment. You might also check to see if any counseling is providing by your state gambling commission for problem gamblers. National Problem Gambling Helpline: 1-800-522-4700 can direct you to your area's resources.
Taking a vacation to reward yourself for not continuing to gamble is a great idea too.
There were many times for me that I would have had a better chance of getting my money back if I would've just gone in and thrown it on the floor.