In our case, the dream to stop gambling and stay stopped. :)
1. They see challenges as opportunities
Most people interpret fears as obstacles and tend to run away from them. People who live their purpose successfully have developed the capacity to see fear as a sign of what they really need to go for and put all their courage and energy into it.
2. They see life as a game.
Having this vision of life opens up space for playfulness and creativity instead of limitation. This also cultivates qualities of resilience, problem solving and confidence that helps them take risks to get to the next big place.
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3. Living the life they want is the only option.
Theyre so committed to making their dreams a reality that they banish any possibility of a backup plan whatsoever from their mind. They dont think things like, If it doesnt work, Ill just go get a job.
4. They always speak their truth.
Theyre able to speak it because they make a conscious effort to connect to their truest desires, their inner voice, and their spirituality without fear of judgment. This connection is typically fostered through meditation, journaling, being mentored and being surrounded by like minded-people.
5. They arent just dreamers: they act on their desires.
Instead of getting stuck in their dreams, they snap right into action, no matter what it takes. Whether its quitting a job, getting out of a relationship that holds them back, investing in themselves or moving to a new location, they have the courage to do it. They do this by listening to, and then acting on, their intuition.
6. They expect and know that they deserve the best.
They expect that what they want is going to happen as if it were an inner-knowing. They expect and feel they deserve to earn well, do what they love, serve others using their gifts. The secret is that they still expect the best even when they dont have all the answers as to how its going to happen.
7. They have no fear or guilt when asking for what they want.
Because theyre so connected to their passions, they arent afraid to ask for what they want. In fact, they understand that their success depends on others, so asking for what they want is part of the deal. They set their boundaries and express their needs without fear, guilt or shame. Best of all, this is a trait that earns them respect from others.
8. They create their own rules.
They create their own rules instead of fitting into societys norms. They make decisions from a place of what they want to have instead of what they think they can have. This gives them the freedom to design their destiny.
9. Theyve learned to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
They dont get stuck in having all the answers, making things perfect or trying to gain comfort by controlling everything. Instead, theyre aware that theyre not going to see the next step until they make the decision to move forward despite the discomfort.
10. They have teachers, mentors and role models.
Having teachers increases their awareness. They clearly understand that each time theyre getting ready to pursue their dreams all their limitations are going to come up to the surface so that they can let go of them. Having role models and mentors helps them quickly identify where theyre stuck so that they can immediately change their results.