1) Get some rest.
2) Check into purchasing an electronic cigarette.
3) Make important calls.
4) Get a flu shot
5) Pray
6) Read
7) Write

Whew...I'm tired already! That's enough...just for today. GOD BLESS

Ll2live, Yes, it is a Dangerous One - when compulsive gambler feel: "I can breathe now, at least financial pressure is off my chest". I am living example where it leads to. When we struggle with urges, we don't want to listen to anyone. Because, the force inside is louder than anyone else around us. I started gambling already 2 month after my 1st BK was filed (not even discharged yet!), it led me to serious depression, 3 days in mental clinic and tons of new debt, loop of chasing loses, losing more (history Always repeats itself, in our ga case it usually repeats, but goes down spiral). I accumulated tons of debt, got second job. Worked 2 full time jobs and 3rd part-time job for 2 years in hope to re-pay the debt. Stress and believe its only a financial problem, led me to gambling even more (with more resources). Even 3 paychecks wasn't enough soon to satisfy my needs, I resorted to bunch of loans, including 7 payday and title loans. Last year my husband got diagnosed with liver problem, I feeling broken down (all ways around) had to quit my 2nd job. For 4 months I went through humiliation of bill collectors calling my work 5 to 10 times a day and insulting my department co-workers and my references. God Bless my supervisor! She stood by my side. Just 4 years after my 1st BK I filed ch13 BK (2nd one). Yes bill collectors stop calling.. By casino didn't stop calling.. Or if I rephrase it, I didn't stop picking up casino calls. It felt so easy, to do this 2nd BK and be done (opposite of an advice in GA yellow book: No Bail outs). I didn't know it will take almost 8 month to finalize it, and of course continued going back, investing in my addiction. Didn't pay trustee payments, didn't pay mortgage payment and borrowed bunch of private loans again. Now I get sued left and right, I don't know how I am going to get out of this situation and where my family going to live... The only thing I know, I am in Peace with myself, because I finally realized who I am and forgave myself. Gambling addiction, like any addiction is solution for distraction and ultimate goal of it to Eat your Soul and leave nothing of you.
I really like your plan for weekend! I am going to print it out and possibly use for myself. You are smart, you know what is good for ll2live and you can do it. I believe in you! And may my believe in you, not be a burden of responsibility for you (if you understand what I mean), but another stone you can step on and feel you have something sturdy to stand on and not just a quicksand around you. Forgive yourself, and enjoy your weekend. May your plans for a weekend you listed all come true and please share after. I know I'll be here to listen.

1. Going to a funeral service this afternoon, but know it will end with many good memories and tears through laughter. Very healing.
2. Tonight going to a lecture by Robert Glennon who wrote the book Unquenchable.
3. Tomorrow 8 AM getting donuts and fruit for Grand Opening of Democratic HQ [sorry for politics, , but that's the way I roll]
9 AM GA meeting -really hoping I can go! Back to Dem HQ until about 2 PM
4. Night to be with Mom and Dad [my parents have health issues]
hopefully watch the SF Giants win!
5. Sunday -Football, Football, Football. [go NINERS!]
Oh yeah there will be some good talks, lotta laughs, Prayers and lotsa food in there!
Have Monday OFF - Yeay!! Love you all. Keep the faith, fight the good fight and I will do the same. ~atticus

Vicky... thank you so much for sharing your story. I could see myself doing the same things. I don't want to. Let's fight this thing together.

Yeah, I agree. When I was reading your post Vicki, I saw my self going through the same situation you went through. I am sorry that had to happen to us and thanks for sharing your experience so that we can learn from it.

II2Live, you definitely have the right Idea. My weekend plans are as follows:
Today: I just got done working out. now i will watch TV, Invite a friend and drink some Coronas.
Saturday: Watch College Football, hopefully Michigan wins. Then do some homework.
Sunday: Class in the morning, and the rest of the day will be FOOTBALL!!!!!!!!


I wish everyone a happy weekend. Fuck the CASINOS, let them burn in hell. (excuse my language but it felt kinda good).

Hi all,

Wow, there are some great plans in store for y'all, and what's exciting is that not one included going to "the Hell Hole Of Despair". Hats off to all of you. Now let's see....what will I do this weekend:

1. Friday night has come and gone, and it was relatively quiet.. Got to spend some phone time talking with my kindred spirit in CA; thank you A for being there for me. Love laughing with you and sharing thoughts.
2. Another of my dear friends called and we discussed God and how we found our way back to Him. This was so peaceful and serene...it never ceases to amaze me the calm that enraptures my soul.
3. Saturday morning, in fact in a few minutes, I'll be headed to the Y; shoot a few hoops, a little rowing and biking to somewhere (stationery equipment, but the mind takes me to wonderful places.
4. Saturday afternoon-lunch with my sharp-as-a-tack 84 yr old Mom. Girl talk....which is something that has been missing all these years.
5. Tonight and tomorrow, well, I've got a pretty heavy discussion I need to have with my partner, as we've been struggling to keep our relationship a-float. But it needs to be had, and it will not be easy. but we will both push through whatever changes may come as a result of our decision.

Still in all...it is life, and I'm thrilled to be enjoying another 86,400 seconds of precious time being alive, and breathing in the beauty of all that surrounds me.

May you all enjoy your GF days-make them count...in the "Good" column.

Love to all, Tagg.

I worked 4 days/12hrs in a row. And today is my "Friday", I have 3 days off. My days off, always been difficult for me, especially if I have some money. I am going to plan them now, but one day at the time.
Monday: 1. Walk with dog in a park; 2. Visit to the BK attorney. 3. Do some cleanning; 4. Relax, watch TV; 5. Maybe, do a little shopping with my young one.

Thats a great plan Vicky. Just imagine the feeling you will get when those three days pass by and you didnt break. I had temptation to go today because I had money but I held my self back because I want to be able to keep my word for once. Best of luck and buy the little one some icecream!

Well, got my appointment with the BK lawyer. ~No ch13 is not going to be awarded. ~Creditors will get after me (90 days to get judgment) 25% off my gross paycheck, ~car will be taken away in beginning of next month (have to buy a vehicle immediately), ~house will be my home is just for next 2 or 3 months. Lots of options was discussed, but Whatever..
None of my plans worked for Monday:
1. Walk with dog in a park - slept late, didn't take dog to the park;
2. Visit to the BK attorney - informational, but outcome sucks.
3. Do some cleaning - came back from lawyer broken emotionally, fell asleep, slept for 5 hours straight.
4. Relax, watch TV - just a bit, no interest;
5. Maybe, do a little shopping with my daughter - fall brake is here. Even didn't see her until 7:30 pm, she was at her friends house whole day.
Plus, ate a lot and whatever my eyes saw. Gained at least 3 pounds today. I guess I will do some food therapy for few days.

Does all of the above going to be a trigger for me? Honestly, had a strong short term urge right after my appointment. But opened DS forum on my cell phone, read posts loud to my husband and together we felt better. I am not doing good right now, but I know it will get better. It will.. . I can feel He has a plan for me. just have to hope and believe. Vicky

Vicky, I'm sorry to hear that you got bad news from the BK attorney. Please remember that creditors can't take your life or your family or your freedom. Good for you for not letting this trigger you into going back to that hell hole. Can you file BK again after rejection?