Gambling Addiction & Recovery Support Group
Compulsive gambling is an urge or addiction to gamble despite harmful negative consequences or a desire to stop. A preferred term among many professionals is problem gambling, as few people described by the term experience true compulsions in the clinical sense of the word. Problem gambling often is defined by whether harm is experienced by the gambler or others rather...
Even if you do not gamble, you could end up thinking that is OK to be around it. That false sense of confidence could set you up for a relapse in the future.
Just my .02!
This casino had a native American museum and a car show happened to be going on. After seeing those, I started exploring the town around the casino. It was a successful gamble free trip for me.
I can see not wanting to tell your coworkers, but if I trusted my boss, I would tell him/her what I was grappling with and ask their opinion about dealing with the situation.
I hope you will hold strong and be true to yourself.
Sending you a hug!
Relatively early on in my recovery, I spent a bit of time in a casino, and remember seeing some awfully sad faces. For me, avoidance was never going to be an option. It is around me in my everyday life, and I had to come to grips with that. I have found that, for me, dealing with it in this way has worked well. Of course, everyone is different-- I just wanted to put in my two cents.
Not many people around me know that I am a compulsive gambler. I tell people on a "need to know" basis, and most people simply don't need to know. When asked about going to a casino or (more frequently) partaking in other betting comes up, I just say "I don't gamble". (That was said in reference to your question about an alcoholic politely declining a drink.) It wasn't an easy thing for me initially, but I have found that it has become far easier over time.