Friends til the end Community Group
A group for those of us here who get more from our friendships than from the available discussion groups. A place to be accepted and appreciated for who we are. Somewhere to always feel safe and know that especially on the bad days we are here for each other .A place for encouragement and love.
genebh
Airline
Captain (don't delete)
He writes:
My lead flight attendant came to me and
said, "We have an HR. On this flight."
(H.R. Stands for human remains.) "Are they
military?" I asked.
'Yes',
she said.
'Is there an
escort?' I asked.
'Yes, I
already assigned him a seat'.
'Would you please tell him to come
to the flight deck. You can board him early," I
said..
A short
while later, a young army sergeant entered the
flight deck. He was the image of the
perfectly dressed soldier. He
introduced himself and I asked him about
his soldier. The escorts of
these fallen soldiers talk about them as if they
are still alive and still with
us.
'My soldier
is on his way back to Virginia ,' he
said. He proceeded to answer my
questions, but offered no
words.
I asked him if there
was anything I could do for him and he
said no. I told him that he had the
toughest job in the military and
that I appreciated the work that he does for
the families of our fallen soldiers.
The first officer and I got up out of
our seats to shake his hand. He left
the flight deck to find his seat.
We completed our preflight checks,
pushed back and performed an uneventful
departure. About 30 minutes into our
flight I received a call from the
lead flight attendant in the cabin. 'I
just found out the family of the soldier
we are carrying, is on board', she said.
She then proceeded to tell me that the father,
mother, wife and 2-year old daughter were
escorting their son,husband,
and father home. The family was upset because
they were unable to see the container that the
soldier was in before we left We
were on our way to a major hub at which the
family was going to wait four hours for the
connecting flight home to Virginia.
The
father of the soldier told the flight attendant
that knowing his son was below him in the cargo
compartment and being unable to see him was too
much for him and the family to bear. He had
asked the flight attendant if there were anything
that could be done to allow them to see him upon
our arrival. The family wanted to be outside by
the cargo door to watch the soldier being taken
off the airplane.I could
hear the desperation in the flight attendants
voice when she asked me if there were anything I
could do. 'I'm on it', I said. I told her
that I would get back to
her.
Airborne
communication with my company normally occurs in
the form of e-mail-like messages. I decided to
bypass this system and contact my flight
dispatcher directly on a
Secondary radio
There is a radio operator in the operations
control center which connects you to the telephone
of the dispatcher. I was in direct contact with
the dispatcher. I explained the situation I had
on board with the family and what it was the
family wanted. He said he understood and
that he would get back to me.
Two
hours went by and I had not heard from the
dispatcher We were going to get busy soon and I
needed to know what to tell the family. I sent a
text message asking for an update. I
Saved
the return message from the dispatcher and
the following is the text:
'Captain, sorry it has taken so long to
get back to you. There is policy on this now and
I had to check on a few things. Upon your
arrival a dedicated escort team will meet
the aircraft.
The team will escort the
family to the ramp and plane side. A van will be
used to load the remains with a secondary van
for the family. The family will be taken to
their departure area and escorted into the
terminal where the remains can be seen on the
ramp. It is a private area for the family only.
When the connecting aircraft arrives, the family
will be escorted onto the ramp and plane side to
watch theremains
being loaded for the final leg home
Captain, most of us here in flight control
are veterans.. Please pass our condolences on to
the family. Thanks.'
I sent a
message back telling flight control thanks for a
good job. I printed out the message and gave it
to the lead flight attendant to pass on to the
father.The lead
flight attendant was very
thankful and told me, 'Youhave no
idea how much this will mean to
them.'
Things started
getting busy for the descent, approach and
landing. After landing, we cleared the runway
and taxied to the ramp area. The ramp is huge
with 15 gates on either side ofthe
alleyway. It is always a busy area with
aircraft maneuvering every which way to enter
and exit. When we entered the ramp and checked
in with the ramp controller, we were
told
that all
traffic was being held for us.
'There is a team in place to meet
the aircraft', we were told. It looked
like it was all coming together, then I
realized that once we turned the seat belt
sign off, everyone would stand up at once and
delay the family from getting off the airplane.
As we approached our gate, I asked the co-pilot
to tell the ramp controller we were going to
stop short of the gate to
make an
announcement to the passengers. He did
that and the ramp controller said, 'Take your
time.'
I stopped
the aircraft and set the parking brake. I
pushed the public address button and
said, 'Ladies and gentleman, this is your
Captain speaking. I have stopped short of our
gate to make a special announcement. We
have a passenger on board who deserves our honor
and respect. His Name is Private XXXXXX, a
soldier who recently lost his life. Private
XXXXXX is under your feet in the cargo
hold. Escorting him today is
Army Sergeant
XXXXXXX. Also, on board are his father,
mother, wife, and daughter.Your
entire flight crew is asking for all passengers
to remain in their seats to allow the family to
exit the aircraft first. Thank
you.'
We continued the
turn to the gate, came to a stop and
started our shutdown procedures. A couple
of minutes later I opened the cockpit
door. I found the two forward
flight attendants crying, something
you just do not see. I was told that after
we came to a stop, every passenger on the
aircraft stayed in their seats, waiting for the
family to exit the aircraft.
When the family got up and gathered
their things, a passenger slowly started
to clap his hands. Moments later more
passengers joined in and soon the
entire aircraft was
clapping.
Words
of 'God Bless You', I'm sorry, thank you,
be proud, and other kind words were
uttered to the family as they made their way
down the aisle and out of the airplane.
They were escorted down to
the ramp to finally be with their loved
one.
Many of
the passengers disembarking thanked me for the
announcement I had made. They were
just words, I told them, I
could say them over and over again,
but nothing I say will bring back that
brave soldier.
I
respectfully ask that all of you reflect on this
event and the sacrifices that millions of
our men and women have made to
ensure our freedom and safety in
these United States of
AMERICA
Foot note:
I know
every one who has served their country who reads
this will have tears in their eyes,
including me.
Prayer chain
for our Military... Don't break it!
Please send this on after a short prayer
for our service men and women.
Don't
break it!
They die for me and mine and
you and yours and deserve our honor and
respect.
'Lord, hold
our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as
they protect us.. bless them and their families
for the selfless acts they perform for us in our
time of need.. In Jesus' Name, Amen.'
prayer
Request:
When you receive
this, please stop for a moment and say a prayer
for our troops around the world.. There is
nothing attached. Just send this to people in
your address book. Do not let it stop with you.
Of all the gifts you could give a Marine,
Soldier, Sailor, Airman, & others deployed
in harm's way, prayer is the very best
one.
GOD BLESS
YOU!!!
Captain (don't delete)
He writes:
My lead flight attendant came to me and
said, "We have an HR. On this flight."
(H.R. Stands for human remains.) "Are they
military?" I asked.
'Yes',
she said.
'Is there an
escort?' I asked.
'Yes, I
already assigned him a seat'.
'Would you please tell him to come
to the flight deck. You can board him early," I
said..
A short
while later, a young army sergeant entered the
flight deck. He was the image of the
perfectly dressed soldier. He
introduced himself and I asked him about
his soldier. The escorts of
these fallen soldiers talk about them as if they
are still alive and still with
us.
'My soldier
is on his way back to Virginia ,' he
said. He proceeded to answer my
questions, but offered no
words.
I asked him if there
was anything I could do for him and he
said no. I told him that he had the
toughest job in the military and
that I appreciated the work that he does for
the families of our fallen soldiers.
The first officer and I got up out of
our seats to shake his hand. He left
the flight deck to find his seat.
We completed our preflight checks,
pushed back and performed an uneventful
departure. About 30 minutes into our
flight I received a call from the
lead flight attendant in the cabin. 'I
just found out the family of the soldier
we are carrying, is on board', she said.
She then proceeded to tell me that the father,
mother, wife and 2-year old daughter were
escorting their son,husband,
and father home. The family was upset because
they were unable to see the container that the
soldier was in before we left We
were on our way to a major hub at which the
family was going to wait four hours for the
connecting flight home to Virginia.
The
father of the soldier told the flight attendant
that knowing his son was below him in the cargo
compartment and being unable to see him was too
much for him and the family to bear. He had
asked the flight attendant if there were anything
that could be done to allow them to see him upon
our arrival. The family wanted to be outside by
the cargo door to watch the soldier being taken
off the airplane.I could
hear the desperation in the flight attendants
voice when she asked me if there were anything I
could do. 'I'm on it', I said. I told her
that I would get back to
her.
Airborne
communication with my company normally occurs in
the form of e-mail-like messages. I decided to
bypass this system and contact my flight
dispatcher directly on a
Secondary radio
There is a radio operator in the operations
control center which connects you to the telephone
of the dispatcher. I was in direct contact with
the dispatcher. I explained the situation I had
on board with the family and what it was the
family wanted. He said he understood and
that he would get back to me.
Two
hours went by and I had not heard from the
dispatcher We were going to get busy soon and I
needed to know what to tell the family. I sent a
text message asking for an update. I
Saved
the return message from the dispatcher and
the following is the text:
'Captain, sorry it has taken so long to
get back to you. There is policy on this now and
I had to check on a few things. Upon your
arrival a dedicated escort team will meet
the aircraft.
The team will escort the
family to the ramp and plane side. A van will be
used to load the remains with a secondary van
for the family. The family will be taken to
their departure area and escorted into the
terminal where the remains can be seen on the
ramp. It is a private area for the family only.
When the connecting aircraft arrives, the family
will be escorted onto the ramp and plane side to
watch theremains
being loaded for the final leg home
Captain, most of us here in flight control
are veterans.. Please pass our condolences on to
the family. Thanks.'
I sent a
message back telling flight control thanks for a
good job. I printed out the message and gave it
to the lead flight attendant to pass on to the
father.The lead
flight attendant was very
thankful and told me, 'Youhave no
idea how much this will mean to
them.'
Things started
getting busy for the descent, approach and
landing. After landing, we cleared the runway
and taxied to the ramp area. The ramp is huge
with 15 gates on either side ofthe
alleyway. It is always a busy area with
aircraft maneuvering every which way to enter
and exit. When we entered the ramp and checked
in with the ramp controller, we were
told
that all
traffic was being held for us.
'There is a team in place to meet
the aircraft', we were told. It looked
like it was all coming together, then I
realized that once we turned the seat belt
sign off, everyone would stand up at once and
delay the family from getting off the airplane.
As we approached our gate, I asked the co-pilot
to tell the ramp controller we were going to
stop short of the gate to
make an
announcement to the passengers. He did
that and the ramp controller said, 'Take your
time.'
I stopped
the aircraft and set the parking brake. I
pushed the public address button and
said, 'Ladies and gentleman, this is your
Captain speaking. I have stopped short of our
gate to make a special announcement. We
have a passenger on board who deserves our honor
and respect. His Name is Private XXXXXX, a
soldier who recently lost his life. Private
XXXXXX is under your feet in the cargo
hold. Escorting him today is
Army Sergeant
XXXXXXX. Also, on board are his father,
mother, wife, and daughter.Your
entire flight crew is asking for all passengers
to remain in their seats to allow the family to
exit the aircraft first. Thank
you.'
We continued the
turn to the gate, came to a stop and
started our shutdown procedures. A couple
of minutes later I opened the cockpit
door. I found the two forward
flight attendants crying, something
you just do not see. I was told that after
we came to a stop, every passenger on the
aircraft stayed in their seats, waiting for the
family to exit the aircraft.
When the family got up and gathered
their things, a passenger slowly started
to clap his hands. Moments later more
passengers joined in and soon the
entire aircraft was
clapping.
Words
of 'God Bless You', I'm sorry, thank you,
be proud, and other kind words were
uttered to the family as they made their way
down the aisle and out of the airplane.
They were escorted down to
the ramp to finally be with their loved
one.
Many of
the passengers disembarking thanked me for the
announcement I had made. They were
just words, I told them, I
could say them over and over again,
but nothing I say will bring back that
brave soldier.
I
respectfully ask that all of you reflect on this
event and the sacrifices that millions of
our men and women have made to
ensure our freedom and safety in
these United States of
AMERICA
Foot note:
I know
every one who has served their country who reads
this will have tears in their eyes,
including me.
Prayer chain
for our Military... Don't break it!
Please send this on after a short prayer
for our service men and women.
Don't
break it!
They die for me and mine and
you and yours and deserve our honor and
respect.
'Lord, hold
our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as
they protect us.. bless them and their families
for the selfless acts they perform for us in our
time of need.. In Jesus' Name, Amen.'
prayer
Request:
When you receive
this, please stop for a moment and say a prayer
for our troops around the world.. There is
nothing attached. Just send this to people in
your address book. Do not let it stop with you.
Of all the gifts you could give a Marine,
Soldier, Sailor, Airman, & others deployed
in harm's way, prayer is the very best
one.
GOD BLESS
YOU!!!
Thanks Gene.
(((HUGS))),
Angel
All the Soldiers are Heroes to me;
They fight in order that we can be free.
Our fathers and mothers have gone before;
They defended our Country by going to war.
Our soldiers are fighting for freedom each day.
Some lose their lives; it's a high price they pay.
They fight for our country, for and for you;
So our children are free, and grandchildren too.
Until we find a better way,
To stop the terrorists, in the games they play.
To guarentee that we're safe in our land
Our soldiers will continue to fight in the sand.
Our dream is to have them all home again;
For our Country to be sage for each & ever man.
In the meantime we know Freedom's not free.
Thanks to the Soldiers - you're Heroes to me.
The injured have given their lives just as truly............ and continue to give it on each and every day that they continue to live with their memories, their pain and their disfugurements!!!