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Sad, sad, sad...I don't learn...

cindy666
cindy666

Me: "So you had no feelings at all for me over the six years or whatever it was? Just wondering and sorry to ask." Him: "Cindy, We met and fucked. Then we continued to fuck. You’re married so for me we were / are two people that liked to fuck. Needed to fuck ! Feelings are seldom developed over two people that need fucked. It’s not love nor hate but rather a mutual need of needing-to blow / to fuck . I drop (my daughter) off at 4 today . Are u around? Maybe it’s easier to talk about in person" me: "Well I asked for it. No, I’m not around."

johnnycake
johnnycake
So what are you going to do now?
cindy666
cindy666
Well, I am hoping I can be stronger than I have been in the past. Part of why I copied it here is to hopefully sink it into my brain, so that I am not taken in by the sweet words that may come later (if that makes sense).

I haven't been here in a very long time, but this site was helpful in the past, so I thought I'd try again.
johnnycake
johnnycake
I hope it helps you again. How did you deal with the stress of keeping this affair secret, or was your S.O. ok with it?
cindy666
cindy666
No, he wasn't aware, as far as I know. I felt no guilt, which is weird...and he works long, sometimes erratic hours. So I managed.
cindy666
cindy666
I had no contact since I posted this in August until yesterday, when he managed to get in touch. I am a mess. Right back where I started, Devastated, sad, depressed, hating myself and him. He has a new hot young GF that he won't even expose his daughter to. I've read her Twitter and she is extremely damaged. So what am I? Complete garbage if he prefers her to me, no?
cindy666
cindy666
Hate myself (I'm an old hag next to his new chick), hate him, don't know what I will do.
johnnycake
johnnycake
Hold the course and stop beating yourself up. That's what got you into the mess in the first place.
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