Financial Challenges Support Group
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One of our strategies was to have a credit card that paid cash rewards for our normal every day purchases (food, gas etc.) When we received our credit card statement we paid it off in full every month, consequently we never have paid interest on our CCs. The rewards that we received were placed in a fund called "Gift fund" and that is the money we use to purchase gifts for friends and family when appropriate (birthdays, Christmas etc.) We never exceed what is in that fund. So, there is, in my opinion, a proper way to handle and have a credit card. You have discovered it. And for that and many other reasons I think you are a very smart man. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, I know that its a way to do service work. We try to pass on the solution, not the problem.
Thank you!
Toty
I love your use of rewards. That is something I will start doing. That is a very good idea.
Another one that I get rewards on is my bank debit card... haven't used them neither... I need to start utilizing these "gifts" when I am thinking of purchasing something that is out of the ordinary....
And yes, the "biggie" is to not compare a life to someone else's.
I have friends that have beautiful fancy homes, huge yards, nice cars, fancy entertainment centers... they have it all and they have the debt to go with it.
Me? I drive an '85 Oldsmobile... use rabbit ears for my TV... and live in a 700 sq. ft. apartment and my debt is zero.... so who actually has it better?
I travel once a year for at least a month, they struggle to getaway for a weekend. I really do enjoy this "simple" non-material way of life... it is very stress free
A long, long time ago when I was a child, my mom worked outside the home full time and owned her own car, but Sears would not give her a credit card in her name alone. They gave my dad one, but not mom. We never forgot Sears for that one.
I did have a debit card and that filled the void of having to carry so much cash.
That first credit card had a $300 limit and a $59 annual fee. It was bad but it was all I deserved. My credit was shot.
I used that card at least once a week and paid it on time for a year and my scores improved. When I got a better one, I closed the first one and did the same thing with the second. Then a really good company sent me an application for another card and I shocked myself when I got it.
Those two gave me a limit of $3,500. Which to me meant I could charge $350 safely without it affecting my credit scores.
This third one has increased my limit to $5,000 total. Now it is at $500 that I could safely charge. The reality is though that $500 is pushing the limit that I'm comfortable with. I can make the payments if need be but I'd probably have to dig into savings to make sure I don't get any interest charges.
So I'll stay at that $350 which is only 7% of my available credit, which should continue to improve my scores.
The only time I'll go over that 10% threshold will be when I book a flight to England and then I will take money from savings to pay the card and stay away from the interest...