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I want to thank those who replied in my journal. As you know, sometimes we do not get our point across or even what we really mean to say. I do understand that there are some on here that are tired of the suicide threats of leaving. Thats ok, but instead of being rude, why cant you just pass over it and ignore it.? And then let those of us who want to minister to them do so. D , I know you are not a psychiatrist. And if you are tired of it thats fine. There are times when we all get to the point 'we just can't handle anymore'.But, I feel like I have been on all ends of the spectrum, I have a very deep compassion for people who are in need in anyway, be it emotional or dramatic. (not saying you don't),but they are not doing it, like a troll, they are doing it for a reason. It just breaks my heart, knowing how bad some can be hurt, if we are so callous to them.
In answer to your question you asked me in my journal D, as to what my leaving did to you, and did I ever stop to think about anyone but myself.your absolutely right, I didn't think how it affected you. At that moment, you can not get past anything but the hurt, the deep deep hurt, that only someone who has suffered from sever depression can understand. You CANT think at all. All that is going through your head is how worthless you are, fit for nothing and no one. I wasnt totally selfish though because It also crossed my mind that you deserved a better friend than me. I was useless to anybody. That is the way a deeply depressed person can feel. You just dont think coherently. So, if I hurt you, I am terribly sorry. I ask your forgiveness. I would not intentionally hurt anyone.
Thanks to all on both sides of the poll. I feel like this time we have worked out a solution together as a Fmily; at least I sure hope so. I really do care about everyone here.
And momma hugs, you have more guts than I would have to come back after the lashing you got from several of us. I admire you for that. I agree what you did was wrong, but I readily forgive you because non of us are perfect; we all make mistakes.
Blessings to all,
~dixie
In answer to your question you asked me in my journal D, as to what my leaving did to you, and did I ever stop to think about anyone but myself.your absolutely right, I didn't think how it affected you. At that moment, you can not get past anything but the hurt, the deep deep hurt, that only someone who has suffered from sever depression can understand. You CANT think at all. All that is going through your head is how worthless you are, fit for nothing and no one. I wasnt totally selfish though because It also crossed my mind that you deserved a better friend than me. I was useless to anybody. That is the way a deeply depressed person can feel. You just dont think coherently. So, if I hurt you, I am terribly sorry. I ask your forgiveness. I would not intentionally hurt anyone.
Thanks to all on both sides of the poll. I feel like this time we have worked out a solution together as a Fmily; at least I sure hope so. I really do care about everyone here.
And momma hugs, you have more guts than I would have to come back after the lashing you got from several of us. I admire you for that. I agree what you did was wrong, but I readily forgive you because non of us are perfect; we all make mistakes.
Blessings to all,
~dixie
I just wanted to tell you that I always see you post to someone in need and have been very supportive to everyone.
I hope you are not leaving DS as I feel you give alot more than you recieve, you are always so supportive of everyone esp. the newbies.
I wish I could do something to make you feel better but this isn't about me and I don't know what to do except tell you I will always be here for you and I care about you very much. You are a very caring and loving person that deserves only the best and I hope you and D can work this out somehow as I care about both of you wery much.
Please contact me so we can talk personally. I don't want you to feel alone because I have told you many times that I will always be here for you and I stand by what I say.
Hugs Dix,
V
Please understand me on this, as I think it is very important.
Dixie, This is not about you and me at all.
My post was just informing folks what I intend to do.
I am not advocating that anyone else do what I do.
I am only saying that I will not beg repeat posters who threaten to leave because they are angry at something to stay.
I have never turned my back on anyone in need and I do not intend to do so now.
Perhaps you may want to go back through the pages and reread what I posted.
I am advocating that people who are angry at something, come out and say I am angry or annoyed or whatever about such and such a thing. Not say I am leaving because I am angry at such and such a thing.
This is twice you've put me down. You don't like it. DON'T READ IT!
Now who's putting who down?
I just wish this would blow over because you both were friends and I wish it could be like that again.
Unfortuantely i think we have inadvertantly put V in the middle.
V-even though you know both sides, neither of us holds anything against you. I think I can speak for D too , that we both love you very much.