Oh sweetie we are here for you. My hubby doesn't understand alot too and thatme fake alot. Always remember we will be your leaning post when you need us.
Hugs to you hon.
Cinda

Honey, I don't think it is possible to NOT resent those who feel well when you are ill.....What you are feeling is NORMAL....and what he feels is also NORMAL....how about a prayer that we accept our lot in life and love our loved ones so fiercly that we forget the hard times and only recall the good....a prayer for selective amnesia....Yeh...that's the ticket....
hugs and Prayers
Laurel

Not even a glass of wine? I'm not sure life is worth living without wine!

What makes you say that you think your husband is tired of being there? Has he done or said something to indicate that's how he feels?

Prayers for both of you,that you make it through the rough times to a deeper and more loving relationship.

Hugs and Prayers

All right. Gues I wasn't done yet. Sorry. But i would have a few beers and sit down and talk to him heart to heart sweetie. I don't drink wine, but do drink bee and it lets me tell my hubby how I feel. Just a thought.
Love ya!

We all feel like complaining sometimes and here is where most of us do it and I think myself that this is good , it kinda keeps us complaining to someone who actually understands what we are going thru and doesnt really see it as complaining and 2nd then our hubbys dont have to hear as much so it helps our marriages...I pray 4 both of you that God will give you both exactly what you need to get thru this...Dont worry we all need each other that is why we are here..

I also believe in prayer.. and all i ask for is strength to get thru the pain.. I have to say my hubby is pretty good with dealing with my pain.. all he has to do is look at me when he gets home and know how my day went.. I to complain sometime for his time.. but mostly i shouldnt for he does do alot for me.. I used to love a nice cold beer.. but due dont endulge anymore...it increases my pain now.. and I mean increase.. so no more beer.. sigh.. hubbys sometimes done show thier "feelings" as us women do.. hope you can sit with him and maybe talk with him.. i wish you the best hun.. and gbless ..:)

Sometimes I'd love for somebody to take care of me, but alas, it won't be my husband unless it doesn't interfere with his "agenda." If you need something specific, ask. If you can do it yourself or figure another way to get it done, do it.Good luck

I can totally relate. My pain goes up and down, but it is too often terrible. I have trouble getting great support at home too. My husband sort of tolerates my health issues. I believe in prayer too. Maybe I'll pray for both of us. :)

gentle hugs,

Susan

I pray this be the prayer of everyone with FM who is married. Strength and wisdom!

xxoo's hon I got your back and hugging you too!

xxoo's hon I got your back and hugging you too!