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I swear I think my husband is trying to kill me ...
OK. .. OK. .. maybe not kill me but it sure does feel like it. Friday we went to play tennis, it was fun but my ankle isn't 100% and still kind of hurts. Saturday I wake up, my back is killing me and I have this headache that won't go away. I tough it like we do so often. We decided to go to a festival, which includes walking for like ever. I didn't get any good sleep and then this morning he decides he wants to go to a flea market. We walked 3 miles and he's STILL not done. He wants to go play tennis AGAIN. I bite the bullet and try to keep up. He knows I can't handle all that, but I feel like such a loser telling him "hey, I'm just going to stay home and sleep"
I don't know what I should do. On top of that my sister had decided to blame me again for everything that's wrong. I can't handle all this stress and physical activity. Blah.
OK. .. OK. .. maybe not kill me but it sure does feel like it. Friday we went to play tennis, it was fun but my ankle isn't 100% and still kind of hurts. Saturday I wake up, my back is killing me and I have this headache that won't go away. I tough it like we do so often. We decided to go to a festival, which includes walking for like ever. I didn't get any good sleep and then this morning he decides he wants to go to a flea market. We walked 3 miles and he's STILL not done. He wants to go play tennis AGAIN. I bite the bullet and try to keep up. He knows I can't handle all that, but I feel like such a loser telling him "hey, I'm just going to stay home and sleep"
I don't know what I should do. On top of that my sister had decided to blame me again for everything that's wrong. I can't handle all this stress and physical activity. Blah.
I know the pain of not being able to do those things we once could. I try to not beat myself up. I had to go through a grieving process.
BTW, I doubt that your husband is trying to kill you. However, he may be missing the old you. I know I miss the old me.
Be sure to take care of yourself.
Hugs
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