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How many times have you been called just lazy?
Outside of calling myself that....about 3 times so far.
The way I see it, its really no bodies business if I am lazy or not!
If I want to live in a messy house, that's my business. If I cook supper or don't, that too is my business. If I don't want to participate in their activities that they are heading up, their just jealous.
Now ask me if I care what people think of me.
Yes and no. No if they are going to judge me. Yes if they want to be a true friend and understand me. True friends won't judge but are supportive instead.
What do you say when your told your lazy? I just shrug my shoulders and say, "oh well" and walk away. They are not worth my time or the flare it will cause by getting my dander up.
So...I encourage you to have a cat attitude. No worries. Will if I wanta and if I don't that's their problem not mine. LOL
Who wants to join the cat club?
Outside of calling myself that....about 3 times so far.
The way I see it, its really no bodies business if I am lazy or not!
If I want to live in a messy house, that's my business. If I cook supper or don't, that too is my business. If I don't want to participate in their activities that they are heading up, their just jealous.
Now ask me if I care what people think of me.
Yes and no. No if they are going to judge me. Yes if they want to be a true friend and understand me. True friends won't judge but are supportive instead.
What do you say when your told your lazy? I just shrug my shoulders and say, "oh well" and walk away. They are not worth my time or the flare it will cause by getting my dander up.
So...I encourage you to have a cat attitude. No worries. Will if I wanta and if I don't that's their problem not mine. LOL
Who wants to join the cat club?
hubby has even thrown in my face that im laZY. i tell them all, until u have to live with fibro go jump off a damn bridge, i dont wanna hear it. i dont let them get to me. i know they have no clue the kind of pain we go thru.
My sister says she 'wishes she didn't have to work like me' I tell her I wish to high heaven that I COULD WORK!
Husband thinks that because I can't work means I have time to keep house spotless on a daily basis.
Cheah, right.
I just 'turn the other cheek' (hiney cheek that is)
This topic angers me to no end, can you tell?
~Pam
No one has ever called me lazy to my face...maybe they know about this club and were afraid of a "CAT FIGHT"
LOL...
Sandra