Hello Jerry'sgirl, I have had the flares which just about disable me, but for the past few weeks the daily pain has intensified dramatically. Yesterday I did good to walk half normal. There alot of people in here that are like you are everyday. Go to www.xat.com/FMSupport and join in with us chatting back and forth with one another. You get immediate feedback with Fibro.

No, you aren't a whimp, in fact, I'd say just the opposite. When you can accomplish even one thing when you are filled with pain is something to be proud of. Everyone experiiences fibro in their own way. We all tend to have alot in common, as far as signs and symptoms, etc., but there are alot of variables. A flare can last for weeks or months, so you may be in a really long one, and one day you'll suddenly realize you feel better. Maybe you are experiencing your pain differently than someone alse, because this is just
the way fibro is for you. I have constant pain. It never goes away, but sometimes it is less severe than other times. Meds definitely help, and you should certainly talk to your dr. to see if he/she can give you something that works better for you. For me, it's a trade off, I'd rather have the pain than take more or stronger meds. In my case, I don't have to do anything I don't feel up to, but for someone who has to do certain things, that's not an option. I don't really have an answer, just that you are not alone. I understand, I feel your pain, and I offer whatever support I can give. Soft hugs

me too, I always am in pain, some days the pain is worse than others, like yesterday and I believe thats what some ppl call a flare. You know you are not a whimp. just the opposite take care m'dear.

I was that way for a number of years. After finding the Vit. D deficiency, I have been so much better. Also, the all natural supplement has been a real help. Wish everyone could feel so much better like I do. Prayers and hugs.

you are not a wimp. I have pain everyday its just not as bad once in awhile. I think I have been in a flare pretty much since past march. marilyn

ur most definately NOT whimpy.....look at how you feel everydamnday...

to me we are simply at the other end of the penalum.....most people feel good and get sick once in awhile......we are sick and only feel good once in awhile...

I definately flare....tho I am in constant pain everydamnday....there are days when my pain shoots thru the roof....or alot of symptoms hit me at one time...to me those are flares...

take care of self...

Bonnie

Everyone has different levels of fibro. and it sounds like you got a bad one. If I didn't have my pain meds I'd be in the hospital. The pain is unbearable. You're most definitly not a whimp. Living with this takes the strongest of people and can knock down anyone. I've heard stories of CEOs and other powerful people who had to quit because they got fibro. You also have a family and thats alot of work. It sounds like you need different pain meds that work better for you. Don't accept constant pain. I know I have to take 400mg of tramadol and perocet, valium for sleep everyday, plus all kinds of supplements. I hate it, but I have to work and take care of my family. I've drastically cut back my work hours and family has to help out more, but I couldn't do anything if I didn't take those meds. It took me along time, but I finally found a doc that would work with me to find meds that would work for me and it helps so much. I don't want to be a drug pusher, but for me, the alternative is tons of pain and disability. I've tried all kinds of natural stuff, some helps, but not like the meds. Anyway, I'll stop rambling on. I feel for you and wish you much luck on this difficult journey. Just don't give up. You can find something that will help you. Love and hugs...Kris

Hi Jerry,
No, you are not a whimp. You are in what I called the extended stay flare. I was like that (my longest) 4 months non stop. I came out of my long flare and after a week of "feeling" normal and babying myself to scared to move in case it would happen again I decided to use my weed eater ya....I won't be touching that possessed thing ever again....sent me into a huge flare....I am so sorry you are in a constant pain whirlwind! I know its frustrating and I wish I could say something to make it better.
Gentle Hugs
Jamie