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meme0426
So I'v been offered a new job with more money and better benefits (Yea Me)!!! When do I tell my future employer that I have fibromyalgia? Someone said don't tell them but I really don't see that as an option. Wouldn't it seem more honest if I came clean up front? Please help.
Thanks,
Melissa
Thanks,
Melissa
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I agree with the first response. Don't say a word for at least 90 days. And when you do, be careful. If this company is large enough for FMLA, you might want to consider applying for it to protect your job. Take care.
You can check with the Job Accommodation Network for ideas on what to ask for. They'll even talk to you, I think.
http://askjan.org/
Blessings
Many large companies and government agencies have a "no fragrance" policy these days, as so many people are either sensitive, allergic, or both. If the temperature in the office is moderate, you might try a sweater or layers before you ask for accommodation. I'm extremely sensitive to cold so I totally get it - I'd just suggest trying to mitigate it yourself first if it's not severe.
I once worked in an office so cold that my hands got so stiff I couldn't use the keyboard. That was a small company and I was both the office manager and HR manager, and before that little problem was solved, the landlord learned a few words he didn't know grandmothers use :)
Good luck with your new job - and don't be afraid to ask more questions here if you need help.
I was diagnosed with fibro about a year ago now, when I as about 1.5 yrs into my current job. I still havn't told them here because I can't afford not to work. On the other hand, it's tough to find excuses for missing work after awhile. I agree with the others, wait until your out of probation at least.
Kel
I know what you mean about cold and strong perfume. I had to get a doctor's note in order to be able to use a space heater in my office. As for the perfume, well I think I mad an office mate really angry. I expressed to her as gently as I knew how that I was sensitive to perfume. She stopped wearing it (or at least so much of it) but she also became very cold towards me afterwards. Oh well...
Anyway, best wishes for much success!
Kimber