Female Sexual Issues Support Group

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...

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dreamchaser230
dreamchaser230
As many of you may know, I have spastic CP. I have no desire to have a boyfriend, because every time I try to find one they all treat me like I'm just some sort of sexual challenge. But, I'm a very sexually oriented person and get turned on really easily. But masturbation is starting to bore me. Any suggestions on new or more exciting things to do?
JammieGirl
JammieGirl
That's a tricky one! It would be lovely to find a boyfriend who didn't just see you as some sort of sexual challenge, but where and how to do that are beyond me. I went for the one night stands for awhile but that got boring too. I think everything that's just for sex gets boring eventually, that's how come people end up doing such risky things. It's hard to get the same thrill from the same things, and you soon run out of safe things.

I wonder though about writing erotica? Or finding yourself some kind of sex e-pal? (please keep safe though, there are a lot of creeps!) You don't have to go around sending nakie pics or anything, it can be thrilling and suspenseful to share intimate details with another stranger. Long term those will probably get boring too though. I'm in a similar boat.