Recently, guys on myspace have been noticing me and flirting. I make it clear on my page that I am married and I have not posted any racey pictures. But my husband doesn't even notice me. We have had this problem for a couple of years, we talk about it, things get better for a while, then he goes back to ignoring me. The thing is, when they flirt with me, I enjoy it, and then I feel guilty. I want him to be the one flirting with me. I know he loves me, we do have sex occasionally, after we go to bed or in the early morning. I mean, I know these other guys don't see me the way I really am, they just see a picture. But I really want my husband to notice. I bought a sexy nighty (not very expensive) and he said nothing. I asked him what he thought, he said "you look fine, why?" I even told him about the guys flirting with me, he said, "What, am I supposed to be jealous?" I mean, I am glad that he trusts me, but yes, I want him to be a little jealous. I guess he figures no one else would want me so he is safe.