Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
Everyone tells me that sex is great, pleasurable.. but honestly I don't like it, it was never that great and I find it boring .. is it me or what? I hear people telling me they feel amazing stuff but I don't even think that kissing is amazing.. I lie of course cause I don't want people to think I'm weird but... what's wrong with me?
deleted_user
You're actually not as weird as You might think! i've heard of quite a few girls not enjoying it. Some women are born with fewer nerve endings [they're what causes pleasure] than others. It's just how You are, don't sweat it =]
sempermedusa
I honestly think sex is the most terrible, violating thing on this planet...so I don't really thing there is anything wrong with you.
deleted_user
Personally, sex is fun in the beginning, and becomes mundane once the novelty wears off. So if you have been with the same person for a long time,, im sure sex is extremely fucking boring. Its understandable,, life should revolve around more than just sex. There is nothing wrong with you,, especially since so few men know how to have great sex. Maybe you havent been with dudes who really know how to rock your world haha. If he is flopping on top of you like a dying fish,, thats not a good sign.
deleted_user
Nothing wrong with you I dont like it either but I give in because I dont want to loose my husband of 17yrs.
deleted_user
Thats horrible,, poor women and the shit that they need to put up with when it comes to men. Attract one, then constantly worry about keeping his interest. The problem with males is that they feel sexually entitled. So in a marriage its either you give in or you wait for him to cheat on you. I dont know how people are capable of having long lasting marriages. I always wonder if they just put up with it or endlessly forgive.
Christinaki
That's probably one of the reasons I do not want to be in a relationship. Because no guy will want to just kiss or hold my hand. And I don't think I can just put up with sex in order to keep him, for weeks, months, years.. I don't know.
deleted_user
You have set your mind differently.It's a fun and love to each other.You can understand your feelings about each other.Its not only sex but your love to each other.
deleted_user
Lol that is so funny because I have the same thoughts and feelings. So during sex my mind wanders and I come back once in a while only to start thinking about the goofy look he has on his face and what's so great about sex. Don't even get me started on kissing, I've always called it the exchange of saliva and doing weird things with ur tongue inside another person's mouth. You are not weird. U could try to talk to a counselor and see if these thoughts are related to a past traumatic sexually event that u aren't aware of. It might help :-) It helped me.
deleted_user
Sex IS gross. All that sweat and bodily fluids that don't beling to me...no, thank you!
deleted_user
I dont like it either
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