Well it is done so need to worry. Not everyone can we like nor can we like all of them. I hope your sister understood your reasoning. Most would defend their b/f. Just relax and say no more. You've made your case if he doesn't accept you just remember he is not your b/f and he doesn't have to like you. But it could affect your relationship with sister if you say anymore.

I wouldn't worry about it. You've stated your opinion and that's all that matters. You can't change her mind. She'll have to find out on her own.

ahh thats a hard one and not all family members like who others date and fuk him if he slages u off cause of ur sexuality as long as ur happy then jst ignore him. excuse the language. at least u voice ur opinions i tend to keep mine inside

I've had a similar issue with my sister. I really dislike her boyfriend because he is very manipulative of her and she cant see it. he's going out with her because he knows he can get her to do what he wants, and because he finds it easy to control her. she is just trying to keep him for whatever reason, even though he is often very rude to her, swearing at her, telling her to f off and calling her a bitch.
i told her this and she told me that i was just trying to ruin it for her, because she doesnt think that i could actually care about her, when i do.

if you've told her and she wont listen, then really there is nothing more that you can do unfortunately. one day she will realise what you were talking about, and she will regret not listening sooner.

I think it was brave of you to tell your sister what you thought/felt.

Intolerant people are generally not intolerant of only one area of life. It is usually how they approach most issues and what you did might save your sister from making a decision that might not be good for her.

Hi,
I guess that I did what I had to do and told her. If she stays with him, and it seems that will be the case, then I will have to live with the fact that my sister was not able to make a better choice and they will have to live this way and make the best out of things.

I don't think she is capable to seeing that what he is doing is wrong. I think that she is badly treated by my mom and my dad is not a great influence (my dad is very prejudiced too) so she sees in him the rejection she gets from my mom and the harshness she gets from my dad. So in essence she is repeating the patterns of her childhood in him. With the way my mom treats her I think that she has made a good choice in him :)

It is just very difficult for me to see this injustice. I hate to see people suffer from things that are not their fault. Why should she bear the faults of my mom? I just can't take is sometimes. It actually reminds me of how my dad treats me and that is why it is hitting so close to home for me. I don't know if things can change.

Bye
Hanna