Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
So I've been with my spouse. The better part of 9 years now. And all of a sudden she told me that I'm not doing enough around the house. Even though she's a home all day long after the fact that I work 40 hours a week doing demolition work in asbestos in the past couple of months she's been
I'm nagging me every single day i'm at the point where I don't know what to do. She is lied to meet 3 × 2 my face. The first time saying that it was just the ants that the nephew wanted over for his birthday of which I said, sure no problem. Then, the second time she tries to exclude me from Easter dinner. By telling me it's because I smell like cigarette. But then at the end of her family group text, she said, oh by the way, I told him that it's because he smelled like smoke and throughout the entire group text, they're laughing about me. And my relationship with my spouse. So I'm trying to figure out what I should be doing next. What steps I should take to try to either resolve the issue or be done with it
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
She's showing you a lot of disrespect IMHO
If I remember right it was 'her' writing 'Lol' etc
What do you want to do??
I could not let this go without confronting it and putting an end to the very unkind way of treating you
If something isn't done it will continue
Would you consider couples therapy
If she won't work with you on healthy and respectful changes what do you want to do?
Sometimes when things feel this overwhelming, it can help to take a step back and let things settle a bit before reacting out of anger or hurt. I’ve found I see things more clearly when I give myself that space.
You deserve to be treated with respect, and I hope you’re able to find a way forward that brings you some peace and clarity.