Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
My therapist is concerned for my daughter as I am based on what I told her today. I thought I would share this list with the group.
Humiliating or Embarrassing
Constant put-downs
Hypercriticism
Refusing to communicate
Ignoring or excluding you
Extramarital affairs
Provocative behavior with opposite sex
Use of sarcasm and unpleasant tone of voice
Unreasonable jealousy
Extreme moodiness
Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you
Saying "I love you but..."
Saying things like "If you don't _____, I will_____"
Domination and control
Withdrawal of affection
Guilt trips
Making everything your fault
Isolating you from friends and family
Using money to control
Constant calling or texting when you are not with him/her
Threatening to commit suicide if you leave
Humiliating or Embarrassing
Constant put-downs
Hypercriticism
Refusing to communicate
Ignoring or excluding you
Extramarital affairs
Provocative behavior with opposite sex
Use of sarcasm and unpleasant tone of voice
Unreasonable jealousy
Extreme moodiness
Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you
Saying "I love you but..."
Saying things like "If you don't _____, I will_____"
Domination and control
Withdrawal of affection
Guilt trips
Making everything your fault
Isolating you from friends and family
Using money to control
Constant calling or texting when you are not with him/her
Threatening to commit suicide if you leave
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Which explains the mysterious fevers and my extra fatigue. I'm so glad I pushed for answers.
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Due to my increased paranoia, anxiety, and a panic attack over the weekend, my psychiatrist has put me back in a full dose of Zyprexa until further notice. Every time I think I'm getting ahead something happens and it's back to square one. I knew he was gonna do this but I can't help feeling disappointed. It is what it is.
AnneBee, this was a very informative post. I wish we could keep it posted somewhere for folks who are concerned about their own relationships to refer to.
Thank you for posting.
I ask if your therapist was concerned that you are abusing your daughter. I find that far from accusing.
If you think your grandchildren are being abused I would call CPS... Big hug...x