My son and daughter in law never really keep in contact with me until they need something. That's fine with me since I have my own life. But recently my son needed a place to stay when some family issues came up. I told him that he could stay with me. I completely had to adjust my schedule since I work weird hours and I didn't want to disturb him when he was there, plus I gave him my room since I only have one bedroom and a loveseat in the LR.

He was supposed to be able to go home yesterday but was not allowed to by the judge. (can't go into detail). He came back to my house last night and told me it was a no go. I said he could stay longer but he needed to dial down the extremely long showers. When he's done with the shower, I swear there's water dripping everywhere from the moisture. I see mold on my ceiling already. Plus, I'm on a tight budget and cannot afford the high water bills.

He said sorry about that and I went back to sleep in the back of the house. I went out to the LR a little while later and he had packed up and left without telling me. When I texted him, he said he was in a bad mood and wanted to be alone and didn't want to disturb me. He wasn't disturbing me. I know he got upset with me about the shower comment. He does that quite a bit. Takes offense to the slightest comment. 

I'm not sure how I feel about this. I bent over backwards to help and in return I get no help from him. The other day, I mentioned to him that I need help around the house & yard and I got brushed off and he decided to go golfing with a friend.

I try to be a good mother, but I feel that all I do is give, give, give and get no respect in return.

Sorry for the long winded explanation. 

Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks