My daughter is in a nasty marriage.  She was here for a visit for a week with my grandson, and everything was fine.  She went home and her husband was so drugged out and for the first time as I'm aware, he picked her up and threw her on the couch and pinned her down and told her the marriage is over.  He's blaming us for his problems that we don't like him and never accepted him.  We've always tried to support them for my daughter's sake. We even bailed him out of jail once for drugs. Well, the next day he loses another good paying job.  He then apologizes to my daughter and said if they get divorced, we can see our grandson and she has to leave and find a place to stay.  She has no job as she's been home with the baby.  He then said, that if they stay together and work things out, that my husband and I can never see our grandson again.  Our hearts are so broken.  Earlier that day she took the baby to the doctor for a checkup, and he thought she took off with him.  After the doctor she did go to the police station,  and all they said was, if there are no injury marks to her body, they can't do anything for her and if it happens again to come back.  My husband and I are so afraid that the next time he is going to put her in the hospital and take off with the baby.  Unfortunately they live in Texas and we live in another state and he basically is trapping her in Texas because he doesn't want her to move with the baby out of state.  I know this might sound confusing at times with my writing, but we don't know what to do.  She begged me to not talk to anyone else and let them try to work it out, but also sounds like she can't see us or talk to us anymore also.  That's how controlling her husband is.    Our grandson is only 14 months old and was just connecting with us.  We don't know what made him snap from the time she was here to the time she went home.  Nothing makes sense.