A few months back, I had posted about how my family decided to stop all contact with me. It has been about 3 months now since I have spoken to any of them. Both my brother and sister have children. I have one. I share custody with his bio father. His father keeps him every other weekend, every other holiday & one month in the summer. My son lives with me full time. My estranged father(my sons grandfather), contacted my sons bio father to get his permission to see my son. I'm so pissed off about this. Now, I have not talked to my son's bio father about what is going on with my family, because it is non of his business. He did contact me and said that he had giving my son permission to see My father and that they were going to meet up with him. I contacted my son's bio father and told him that I wasn't okay with this, and that he shouldn't get involve in my family matters, because I don't get in his. I contacted my father in 2 ways, since he blocked my number from his phone. I was able to send a massege to him through facebook & was able to get a hold of my brother and asked him to please contact me. I simple said "If you like to see your grandchild, I would appreciate it if you contact me directly to discuss it." I left it at that. I don't care if he is so pissed off at me or doesn't want to speak to me. He made the decision to NOT contact ME and now he wants to see his grandchild?... I mean If you made the decision to not contact me, that meant you were also giving up your rights as a grandfather! Yet going around my back like that, knowing that I don't have any kind of relationship whatsoever with my son's bio father at all. The only times we talk is about when he is picking /droping off my child.
I don’t know who or what to talk to. I don’t want to hurt my mom anymore by bringing this up, my grandparents are in such pain and I don’t want to ruin my relationship with my bf being being too dependent on him. I’ll try to keep this short but trigger warnings. About 10 years ago my uncle was arrested. He was gonna meet with a minor but it was a sting operation. I remember coming home...
My Aunt passed away earlier tonight. She was 97 years old and suffering a lot. I do not have a child hood memory without her hardly. I think i am in shock even though i knew it would be soon.