I'm having some big issues with my mother and my baby brother....here is a little history. My mother and I have never really gotten along, we tolerate each other, but I never have had that I love my mommy feeling. Her mother, my grandmother died when my mother was 14. I really feel like that plays a part in our relationship...she doesn't know how to treat me, because she never experienced it, I try to understand and keep it in the back of my mind...

Now my brother is another story, she loves him more then all the world...almost even admits it. He was a football player, Army solider and so on...but he is very very narcissistic and can be verbally abusive and my mother enables him completely. She still takes care of all his finances (he's been married for 3 years now) and she knows and helps when they buy a house, car, anything...he, his wife and daughter are all living with my mom and dad right now...that's a whole other chapter book! LOL

Anyways my husband does not get along with my brother at ALL! But he has been trying more for me (which is a big step for him) and he text my brother about a bachelor party my brother was holding and my husband is a groomsmen for the groom. My brother told him the event was on facebook. My husband explained thought text that he couldn't find it and was not sure what was going on, just wanted to find out details so he could make it. My brother continued to get all bent out of shape and called me...because he says he "forgot" to invite my husband...a groomsmen...he said your husband better figure something out. I'm tired of his $____. I asked him what was going on. He said my husband was starting all kinds of stuff. So I called my husband and he was shocked. He said he was nice and didn't start anything. I later read my husbands texts back and forth from my brother and my husband was very nice.

Then my mom posts this on facebook...."You know people make mistakes. Things get said, people get left out, mistakes are made. Accept the apology graciously unless of course you have never made a mistake in the everyday rush of life. I'm telling ya people life is way to short for all the drama. Be thankful for each other because life can be altered FOREVER or gone with the blink of an eye." then she made this comment "I've seen both happen way too often and it hurts. The woulda, coulda, shouldn's of life. Our young generation needs to toughen up and accept that mistakes are made but must also be forgiving and move on. Grow up!"

My husband doesn't know that she said all this, that would cause issues even more. But I'm so hurt and mad at my mom...she wasn't even involved and hasn't seen the texts conversation. Basically mom brother got mad because we pointed out a flaw that he made (no biggie) but he got defensive and mad and called his Mommy and she posted this on FB...seriously the ones who need to grow up are my brother and for sure my MOTHER!

Thoughts about what to do next. I didn't confront her cause honestly I'm so so mad at her to the point where I'm going to say mean hateful nasty things that I won't be able to take back :( :( :(