My daughter turned thirty in september and just decided one day to up and marry the first man that would look at her twice. She's marrying someone she has known a month. She keeps trying to drag me into helping plan this sham of a marriage. I get constant calls, constant harranging about it. I am depressed and sick over it. She won't leave me alone. If she wants to marry fine, leave me out of it.
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