Sorry for the spelling errors guys. Liers = Liars....

From my experience, we all deal with lies to some extent and they come from inssecurity.

The best way to avoid lying is:
- to completely trust the other person
- to feel so low that you have nothing else to lose
- to feel so confident that you can take a setback
- to care so much that you refuse to lie

I think that I have hurt others more and have even hurt myself from lying ... good luck with your group.

my husbands like that but he just makes up stories that aren't true. which is lying. its kind of hard to explain. he just does it almost out of habit. maybe thats why he does it. its innocent lies, kind of like when a kid does it.

Hi does anyone still use this group? i would love to talk to someone about my lying problem

Im here to talk if youd ike...

I've been compulsively lied to by my mother and recently had enough. I'd be interested in learning more about the other side ... to try to understand why.

I think it comes from either deep insecurity that the truth is not good enough, or from abuse where they learned to hide things as an act of self preservation.

I lost my son (estrangement) due to the ongoing lies of his father and my sisters. It's been so frustrating to see him believe things that are just so ridiculous. I'll never understand people who lie to intentionally hurt and destroy others. And there's a special place in hell for those who use children to do it.

I think that they are really insecure and make up things to make them selves look good. They start telling lies and start to believe their lies.