Aww, this post says it all. You love her!! We just get set in our everyday duties that the lil things we use to do and say get lost sometimes. What did you use to do. Maybe cards and coffee once a week or breakfast on Sundays. Every Saturday and Sunday my hubby and I sit and have coffee together. He usually makes the coffee. Maybe you can call her from work one a day to just talk for a minute, let her know you are thinking of her. It works for my hubby and I. If he did not call me I would think he was getting tired of me. Cause that's something he did from the first month of our relationship.

Hi Fjavor: I see where you have a problem sometimes with anger and the last incident you blew up and had your wife crying. You've also had blackouts with anger.

I would suggest that no matter what co-workers have told you, that you seek professional help for anger management. My ex husband brought anger home from work and he couldn't get rid of it and it went to him having blow ups just talking about work to then hitting me and beating me--it's not a far step from anger to violence. He would cry and say it would never happen again and we went in counseling, but he kept with the anger and the beatings. We're divorced.

Anger can take the "new smell" off a marriage and the spark out of it and it did with our marriage. Once you get a professional to help you with the anger and the blackouts, then you will be prepared to try therapy to see if you can gain the respect back of your wife. Good luck and many hugs.

Did you ask her What is the reason why she feel that way??Have you tried to sit down with her and talk about it?? Maybe there is misunderstanding between the two of you. As a woman, you have to make her feel that she is important, that you respect her and most of all you really love her. Go in a place that you could spend your time together and talk about things. If she's mad, don't let her feel that you don't care. FORGIVE AND FORGET, that's the best thing that you can both do.

Let her see your patience, and caring, and love - not in an over exaggerated way - just through steady, consistent action. Help clean up around the house. Bring her coffee or whatever she likes to drink. Give her a massage. Pay attention to her sexual needs. Be nice to her mother even if you have to overcome your gag reflex. buy her a diamond.

It's the small things that make a difference. Try doing something different together. Maybe you can take a class together or try out a new activity. Since I live on a tight budget, I use the Internet to come up with free/cheap activities to do with my loved ones. I looked up cookie recipes that we could bake together one evening. Take the free Rosetta Stone lesson together on the computer, that was a ton of fun. Give her your full attention when you talk. Once a dear friend bought me yellow roses because I had mentioned that I had never received them. It made me feel good because he had been really listening to me and then he took action. I hope some of these ideas may be of help to you. No matter what, don't give up!