Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
Another one of them days where it's all my fault.
So we get up this morning to go to work. Husband is off to work, snow removal, at work. So I call my mom because there's no other way for me to drop off the kids and get to work in this snow. BAD IDEA.... Mom doesn't want to give me a ride. I inconvenienced her by calling and asking (we work at the same place, just different buildings). So I call husband and ask him if he could come back to drop off the kids and take me to work. Well another inconvenience. I just hung up and cried.
I pay for a car I never get to drive. But here I am getting treated like I was the one that did wrong. It's this way all the time.... I've never felt so alone and mistreated until now...
Like this is the last straw. I do everything for this man only to get treated poorly... Back to an emotional/mentally abusive relationship. Only thinking of #1.
So we get up this morning to go to work. Husband is off to work, snow removal, at work. So I call my mom because there's no other way for me to drop off the kids and get to work in this snow. BAD IDEA.... Mom doesn't want to give me a ride. I inconvenienced her by calling and asking (we work at the same place, just different buildings). So I call husband and ask him if he could come back to drop off the kids and take me to work. Well another inconvenience. I just hung up and cried.
I pay for a car I never get to drive. But here I am getting treated like I was the one that did wrong. It's this way all the time.... I've never felt so alone and mistreated until now...
Like this is the last straw. I do everything for this man only to get treated poorly... Back to an emotional/mentally abusive relationship. Only thinking of #1.
There's a couple of choices you could make here though. Could you possibly offer your mother money every week to drive you to and from? Other than that, the one vehicle in your home needs to be shared so I would set up a schedule. NO one person gets to commandeer the one vehicle as if the other spouse didn't exist.
He's a bit selfish to say the least but he can only treat you this way if you allow it. I'd put a stop to his antics and quickly!