Family & Friends of Bipolar Support Group
This community is dedicated to parents, siblings, grandparents, other relatives and friends of someone who is Bipolar. The purpose of this community is to help families and friends develop greater patience and understanding, as well as maintain a positive, caring relationships with those diagnosed as Bipolar.
My daughter is 31 years old and has multiple dangerous personality disorders. She is very verbally and emotionally abusive to me. She uses her children to get me to do things for her. I have helped to raise her 4 children (2 of which are 9 month old twins). She has ODD and defies all authority. She gets mad at landlords and moves in with me. I did not want her there, but feel bad for the kids. This was about 10 months ago. Now she won’t move, so she has bullied me out of my own home and I am moving into an apartment. After I moved, now she is moving. It was a spacious duplex and now I lost it! She gets right up in my face and waves her finger at me, she has assaulted me with hot food while driving, weaved dangerously in and out of traffic when she was driving with me and children in car. She is horrifying and needs treatment. Yet there is not one thing I can do...
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Which explains the mysterious fevers and my extra fatigue. I'm so glad I pushed for answers.
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Due to my increased paranoia, anxiety, and a panic attack over the weekend, my psychiatrist has put me back in a full dose of Zyprexa until further notice. Every time I think I'm getting ahead something happens and it's back to square one. I knew he was gonna do this but I can't help feeling disappointed. It is what it is.
Social services has now stepped in, after I went to the school and asked the counselor to talk to my granddaughter. They did a home visit while I was at work. The children are now with their great grandmother. I have not been allowed to have them due to ss thinking I will allow the parents back, and I had a brief relapse after 10 years of being clean. It has now been 3 months but ss says that's not enough time. The stress I have been under listening to the parents scream and fight daily has taken it's toll on me. The parents are now out of my home, but my depression nose dived after all this happened. I haven't worked since 3/9. There are no words to describe the mess that was left. My son and his wife are staying with a friend so they still have a lot of stuff here. They had so much stuff thrown out in my garage (attached) that it looked like something from the show hoarders! Their room looked like a pigsty, trash and belongings all over the floor, so you could hardly walk without stepping on something. They have been gone since January, but have not bothered to come help clean up their mess.
If you are really concerned about the children's safety you can call CPS.....This really requires some professional intervention from what you've written..... Gentle hug.....xo