Trying to end a relationship with an unstable bipolar boyfriend. Found evidence of his cheating and lying the other day and threw him out. It took 7 hours to get him to leave. He refused to take his things. He claims to not remember sending out my nude photos, but knows with out a doubt that he didn't sleep with anyone. I know that memory lapses happen, I've seen this with my mothers bipolar. But how can he then also claim to know what he hasn't done? How did he know to go and clear his phone text messages when he knew I was pissed and didn't know why yet? How can he claim to know that he won't keep repeating this behavior? How can he really know I don't have justified reason to worry about his actions and my safety? 

He has tried manipulation, begging, threats, putting me down, praising me, self deprecation, flowers, offering me total control of his diet/location/electronics/friendships, and lastly using his bipolar as excuses. (Memory lapse and impending full psychosis)

I agreed to meet with his therapist that first day. I wanted someone trained to mediate. I've come close to offering him to at least use my shower and maybe a sleeping bag on the floor. He broke his ankle that night... Sends me pitiful messages about how terrified he is that he didn't realize how bad his BP has become. 

The more I think about his behavior after I told him I knew what he was doing, the more angry I get. He seemed to believe that he was entitled to a second chance point blank.

How can you be so fragile that you cannot handle this break up, but also be strong enough to deal with the consequences? My anger, resentment, fear, betrayal, loss of respect, and just the plain simple fact that I no longer want you?

I think he is just desperate for cheap rent, and a woman who doesn't ask a lot of him.

I thought we were a team... But we never really were.