Our 34 yr old daughter is bipolar. We've known something was wrong for years and had suspected bipolar but she wasn't diagnoised until recently. She had a severe episode with delusions, paranoia, on and on. She seems to be far more level now but starting to return to her ways of not taking responsibility of and for her children. She's divorced 2x's and lives next door to us. Is there a book we can get to help us know what to expect? We don't want to enable her to be less than she can be. She's a beautiful girl but just can't pull it together. Gets bored easily and wants instant results. We've raised our family and want her to raise hers. We're happy to partner with her but don't want to raise them. It's like she's 16 and their sister instead of their mother.